Sei kudzidza kukurukura

Tose mune dzose muupenyu hwake isu kutaurirana, asi munhu ane guru denderedzwa shamwari neshamwari, uye mumwe inopedza oga kumba mazororo zvose. The ndechokuti vamwe vanhu vanokwanisa kukurukurirana uye kuva dzinonakidza, uye vamwe chete handizivi sei kuratidza mafungiro avo, uye vakawanda mashoko maviri pamwe chete.

Muchiitiko chino, pane musoro mubvunzo: "? Sei I kudzidza kutaura".

Chokutanga, nyatsoteerera mukuru tsika uye dzidzo pamwero munhu, sezvinonzi anoziva zvishoma uye akapotsa hapana haafariri, hazvingaiti kuti zvinonakidza kutaura uye kukwanisa kuchengeta kukurukurirana kuenda. Nokuti vaya akasarudza kuwanazve mhinduro kumubvunzo sei Dzidza kutaura, zvakakodzera kutanga kuverenga zvakawanda, kufarira nhau uye zvavo zvose zviri kuitika munyika. Hapana anoti unofanira kuziva zvizere zvose zvinoitika zvematongerwo enyika nyika rechitatu, asi huru nhasi nhau kuti Pope akanga abdicated, unofanira achiri kukwanisa kupa kana kuramba nyaya, kana kambani mumwe kukanganiswa yakafanana dingindira.

Unofanira kuva zvepachokwadi vamwe vanhu. Bvumiranai, kana ukaramba hanya dzakawanda zvave uye iwe hauna basa chii interlocutor dzinovaraidza imbwa kurwara chaizvo, hazvina zvakasimba kwazvo uye iwe uchava hanya shamwari yako, uye kuyeuka kunyange kuti haisi akudana kana haana kunzi mune Datenroku pamwe shamwari.

Kuti kudzidza kukurukura, unofanira kugona kukudzwa mumwe munhu, kuti kukwanisa kumurumbidza uye kupa vanhu vanonzwa dzavo yokusiyana uye kukosha.

All tinogona kuita, asi zvinofanira kureururwa, vanoda kutsoropodza vamwe, asi kuti chaizvoizvo kunzwisisa uye havana mhosva vanhu vane asi kudzidza, asi nzira iyi richakutungamirirai kuti aikoshesa chinangwa - kunzwisisa sei kudzidza kukurukura.

Yeuka katuni pamusoro ingwe mwana, uyo anoimba rwiyo "The kunyemwerera achava chiedza chenyika"? Saka izvi katuni critter kodzero, zvakakwana kuva noushamwari uye kunyemwerera, uye, sezvo vachiti, vanhu kuti vasvike kwamuri.

Dzidza kuteerera interlocutor wako, rinokurudzira vanhu kuti kutaura nezvako. Kudzidzira kushivirira uye kuremekedza pfungwa mupikisi wenyu. Mashoko akadai sokuti "ichi kwakaipa", "Ko iwe kunzwisisa", "muri kutaura maturo," chete vasundire kure newe, uye kukuvadza interlocutor yake.

Kakawanda, isu kufungidzira vanhu, kuyera ake, asi uyo wakati kuti tiri chiero uye zvose zvakanaka? Asi kutonga vamwe maonero upenyu, isu kunyadzisa munhu pachake, uye iye anongoti zvakasiyana, kwete isu kuita.

Edza kumira mumwe munhu. Kana ukaedza nomwoyo wose kuti kutarira zvinhu mumwe akacherekedza, kunyange kana musingadi kushandura pfungwa, zvaunoita achaongwa.

Regai skimp pamusoro rumbidzo. Yeuka, kunyange kunotsvaka mhinduro yomubvunzo wokuti sei kudzidza kukurukura, unofanira kutanga kugona kukudzwa mumwe munhu, kuti kukwanisa kwete kunzwa, asi kuteerera mumwe mafungiro.

Kukurukurirana paIndaneti, kana tsime riri mhiri chidzitiro siyanei, nekuti haana kuona iwe, kwete unogona kunzwa inzwi rako, havana kuona chiratidzo chenyu. Zvakanaka, chinhu chikuru nzira kudzidza kudzora manzwiro avo uye havanzwi semheni, uye kutenga mukupima "zvayakanakira" uye "nezvayakaipira" chero mhinduro. Nokuti varume, chinhu chikuru nzira kudzidza kutaura nevasikana haisi banal compliments, uye kudavira noungwaru uye noungwaru, nokuti vanhukadzi ndicho mukana noushamwari uye inokwezva vasikana.

Nokuti vaya vari kutsvaka nzira yokukurukura paInternet pane akawandisa siyana dzevakurukuri uye kudanana nzvimbo yaunogona nyore kuwana interlocutor nokuti zvakafanana mubereko. Rokutanga kuwana chitandadzo idzva, mumwe chitandadzo, kana kuti kuita chero mhando mutambo, rinobatsirawo utano, uye achava nyaya kukurukura.

Kutaurirana nemumwe, uye yeuka kuti zvinokosha kuti tirambe mafungiro ari kugeza uye kuva munhu munyoro.