Mupfungwa unyanzvi kukurukura

Kukurukurirana ndiye kudyidzana pakati vanhu, kunoitika panguva nemashoko uye vasiri kutaura chechetere. Kuti abudirire, unofanira kukwanisa kuvaka maitiro avo nemazvo. Izvi zvinogona kubatsira zvebhizimisi uye upenyu pachake, uye shamwari. Kuti abatsire vanhu vanoda kuva conversationalist rakanaka, unogona kuuya mupfungwa nzira yokukurukurirana. Uyezve, ruzivo vamwe mazano abudirire pane zvebhizimisi Nhaurirano kana nharo, zvinokosha kuti mabhizimisi, kunyanya nokuti mukuru mudonzvo.

Kana kukurukurirana munhu anoona kwete chete nezvaanonzwa, asiwo vamwe nuances mufambiro, kunyange panguva imwe chavanoziva chechetere. Kuburikidza nemasaini, chiso chedu, mamiriro nezvimwewo nezvaunomuitira nzira interlocutor anoudza zvaanoda kutaura. Kana kukurukurirana vanhu pfungwa kugamuchira mamwe emotive anonongedzera yakasara subconscious uye kuona mafungiro nomukurukuri, uyewo mashoko ari kuedza kutaura.

Psychological nzira rokuchinja nomumwe kubatsira kuvandudza ukama zvebhizimisi vadiwa, kana kubudirira pachako kukurukura. Mumwe inowanzoshandiswa nzira - nzira kusunungura kusawirirana. Nokuti chinangwa ichi, kazhinji kutaura zvinofadza zvirevo (compliments) kwepauzima hunhu kana aitamba (asi kwete Zvinoshamisa) kusimbisa kuonana.

Unogona kushandisa inotevera kukurukura zviri mupfungwa nzira. Saka, kana kukurukurirana inokurudzirwa kudana zita romunhu kakawanda. Uyu ndiwo mumwe anofadza zvikuru shoko wose. Naizvozvo, pfungwa, izvo rinoati, kunyange pamusoro subconscious sandara, nguva dzose kudzokera iye akati izvozvo.

Kuronga shamwari kwaari, uye Zvinokurudzirwa kushandisa mupfungwa mitoo yakadai se "kunyemwerera nomutsa" kana "girazi ukama." Vanhu pachiso yatiri kuona kugamuchira kunyemwerera uye ushamwari okuti, vapiwa kutanga pakunzi shamwari. Nzira iyi inogona kushandiswa musoro muranda mirayiridzo yake havana kuitwa pasi kumanikidzwa, sokunge ari vashandi vavo.

Psychological nzira rokunyengetedza muna nharo kuchabatsira vavengi kugadzirisa kurwisana diplomatically zvakakwana. Quite dzakakurumbira "zvakananga nzira" nzira iyi. Iye zvinoreva roga, pakutanga kwezvose, kuremekedza unhu interlocutor. Mukuwedzera, pano tinoshandisa pfupi, zvirevo yakajeka, kuchinja zvakananga nyaya.

Kugamuchirwa "kubatana" anonzi rimwe inonyatsobudirira. Kuti nzvimbo shamwari kwaari, zvakakodzera "kuratidza" mwero wake kutaura, simba inzwi. Mukuwedzera, zvinozoita zvinogona kuitwa nokushandisa zvisiri kutukana rinoreva Somuenzaniso, kudzokorora nzvimbo interlocutor, chiso chedu, kunzwa manzwiro ake.

Psychological nzira inzira kumisa kuonana munhu, rinovaka kusawirirana chisarudzo nzira. Somugumisiro, zvinokwanisika kuti vabudirire zvakakwana guru vabudirire mubhizimisi kana muupenyu hwako pachako. Zvinofanira kurangarirwa kuti imwe huru mitemo pano - kuremekedza mumwe munhu.