Vaingoerekana munhu - munhu ratyama kana kushinga?

Pfungwa yokuti "spontaneity" rinoshandiswa ano pane zvakaipa, uye somunhu ari unpredictability, kushaya kuzvidzora, zvinhu asina kufunga. Asi achangobva zvazvinofanira kuti chisingakuvadzi kamwe kamwe uye unexpectedness nezvaaiita. Vaingoerekana munhu anoita vamwe nokufungira, kusavimbana uye anozvideredza mafungiro, zvichiita kutya kuti akanga chero nguva anogona kukanda chinhu kubva zvavo. Maererano rakapa mafungiro kwakasimbiswa munharaunda, kuti munhu akadaro haagoni kuvimbwa pamusoro nekuda kwayo richizvitenda unpredictability. Ko spontaneity ngozi, uye sei kuona chiri "ngozi" unhu?

Spontaneity - zvakanaka kana zvakaipa?

In zvepfungwa, kuti spontaneity kare akatsanangura nenzira dzakasiyana. Vamwe mabhuku vaingoerekana munhu - munhu anowana simba uye ushingi kuita maererano yenyu yomukati dzeMweya, vachisiya kwokunze simba. Mune vamwe, ndizvo kutadza kudzora maitiro ake, kusava zvakakwana ruzivo vakaita zviito. Saka, spontaneity, tanga yakavakwa panzvimbo yakatanhamara, uye ipapo pachinzvimbo kukutsvinyira akakumbira kusiya kwete kodzero inogarwa nzvimbo. Pfungwa wakasununguka kutaura wacho kunetseka pamusoro kushaya kuzvidzora, uye vakutarisire. Both pfungwa dzinonakidza zvikuru, nekuti vaingoerekana unhu kwenguva refu nguva zvinokonzerwa nokuyemurwa kana kushora.

A pfupi nguva kupemberera spontaneity

Chikero zvepfungwa akaramba hakumbofi spontaneity mune rimwe divi uye nekwakewo. Vamwe vakati kuti vanhu nomuzvarirwo - chinhu ngozi uye wokusavimbika munhu, nekuti havazivi sei uye ndisingadi kuva anozvidzora, nepo vamwe vakarumbidza individualism uye kukwanisa kuva pachako. Mugumo ichi kuramba tichishanda gakava akaisa dzidziso Moreno, Jung uye Fromm, uyo akazivisa noushingi kuti tiri kufunga Chiitiko - mumwe motokari simba pamusoro munhu, uye kukwanisa kuva kwatangwa - ndicho chiratidzo kunyatsozivikanwa. Maererano dzavo pfungwa, ndiko kunaka munhu anoonekwa kuva rakakura simba kusunda munhu kuzvinzwira kuzadziswa uye rusununguko kutaura.

The spontaneity mumiromo yavo vakatanga kupikisa yakasimbiswa nheyo uye stereotyped maitiro. Yava mufashoni kuti "kuva pachako", "kuti angatsunga itange nzira kwayo" panzvimbo zvatinosiita "saka itai zvose, kuti zvinoreva ndinofanira", "kufanana nevamwe." Spontaneity akanga chaicho yakasimbiswa pamusoro pakagadzirwa nematanda uye rakaparidzirwa "mugwagwa nokuzviuraya-kukura."

mazuva edu. Iva kwatangwa - kwete mufashoni?!

Makore akapfuura, wakapfuurira yokukanganwa vanatenzi sciences mupfungwa uyo akakwanisa adzikunure spontaneity munhu zita rakanaka. Uye kamwe zvakare akawira mumaoko haafarirwi vanhu, iye akanzi ndiye zvakadai unhu akaipa sezvo kusava kuzvidzora, zvinhu asina kufunga uye unpredictability. Munyika yanhasi, vanhu nomuzvarirwo - murume infantile, ratyama uye saibva, asingakwanisi yokungoita wake usingagoni kuguta "I". Iva kwatangwa - nhamo! - Vana anogona chete.

Dynamic nyika isu vanokunga pasi pake uye dzidza kutevera mabasa, zvirongwa uye pfungwa. Moral basa, dzidzo, paruzhinji kurambidzwa akasungirwa maoko edu, uye isu Musadzivisa, nechokwadi kuti kuva. Kunyange kutaura vaingoerekana nhasi haina vanoremekedzwa zvikuru - aita kuti vakafunga panze, calibrated kumativi ose uye magetsi akapa kuburikidza chidzitiro templates. Uye vashoma vedu kuwana simba kutevera chivimbo nechemukati, pasina kunzwa vakatsamwa kuchema kwenzanga kufamba vakananga rusununguko rwavo "I". Uye isu tichiri havagoni kuzvisarudzira ndivanaani - vakadzingwa munzanga kana kuti kunyatsozivikanwa?

Road spontaneity!

kurarama zvachose munyika zvinodiwa rinorema uye akasuruvara. Munhu wese anekodzero kwenguva duku mune munhu dotage uye kunzwa vakasununguka, kuti kure hwemvura uye kudzoka yaizivikanwa upenyu. Nokuti spontaneity, kufanana zvose zvakanaka, tinofanira kuva nguva uye nzvimbo. Sei kuzadzisa ezvinhu akadaro?

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Zviito izvi achakupai nemanzwiro akanaka uye simba. Uchakwanisa kunzwa vakasununguka vaingoerekana unhu.

Pasinei iwe vakakurukura musoro uyu, mibvunzo pamusoro sei vanhu nomuzvarirwo - zvakanaka kana zvakaipa, spontaneity - ngozi vanhu kana chimiro rwekutaura, munhu wose ane kodzero kupindura kwavowo, kwakavakirwa ravo zvakaratidzwa pfungwa. Asi regai pari bindepinde okisijeni kana spontaneity kwamuri - kuchiunza mufaro, kufamba uye upenyu.