Marudzi chisimba
Psychological mufananidzo mudzidzi ano - wakajeka kupangidza ake evanhu pezvatinokanganisa. Uye mumwe matambudziko zvinokosha mukurovedza nguva mwana ndiye mukana mhirizhonga kuchikoro. Chii, uye chii zvinokonzera vari shure ichi? Ngatiedzei kunzwisisa. Violence kuchikoro pane nezvezvikwata zviviri - mupfungwa uye mumuviri. By anoshusha kubva akuvara pane makakatanwa, izvozvo anonyadzisa iye uye ake nokuzviremekedza. Nokuti ichi mhando nechisimba anogona kunzi vanongoseka, kusekwa, Kunyadziswa dzimwe vana, kupa nicknames, nicknames zvinosembura, unhu mashoko, kukundikana kutaura akuvara (pamwe mwana asina kutamba, regai kugara pedyo dhesiki). mhirizhonga mumuviri chikoro - mhirizhonga iyi nechisimba. Somugumisiro mhirizhonga akadaro mwana anogona kukonzera kukuvara. kurova ichi, hand cuffs, kupambwa pachavo migumisiro uye kukuvadza. "Hand muruoko" Kazhinji, vaviri pakubhadhara aya.
Ndiani munhu?
Waitirwa mafungiro ichi kunogona kuva munhu. Asi kakawanda ndivo vana vakasiyana nevamwe. Vangava vakaremara; vamwe maitiro (avoidant, phlegm, kana Ukuwo, impulsivity); chechienzi chitarisiko (semuenzaniso bvudzi tsvuku kana zvakawandisa muviri uremu); kuva kukodzera mumagariro (hapana kudzivirirwa mhirizhonga nokuti kushaya ruzivo nokuzvidzora okuti uye kutaurirana); School phobia (dzimwe nguva nokutya nyaya zvakakwana pamusoro zvakaipa uye zvakaipa mudzidzisi kana akaipa zvinoratidza); kushaya ruzivo wokuva muchikwata (zviri yaingowanikwa kumba vana vasina kupinda kukireshi); chirwere (vana vane chokundandama, enuresis nezvimwe), pasi uchenjeri uye trudnoobuchaemost (pasi pfungwa nemano sei mano ake kudzidza, ndokusaka chinova kuita zvakaipa mwana, uye nokudaro kuumbwa kusanyatsozviremekedza ).
Ndiani akakuvadza?
Zvidzidzo yakawanda vanachiremba munyika zvinoratidza kuti vana vakanga akarerwa kusadiwa, vasina ushamwari vabereki vane vana "nedolyublennosti" kana kubva nherera. Vari kukwegura, kazhinji kushandisa pane vana vanokura chaiye mhuri.
vari kupi vana vanobata chibharo?
Zvinhu zvinokosha ukama hwemhuri. Ndivo nheyo paumbwe mwana zvido kuti mhirizhonga. mhuri dzine mubereki kazhinji ndivo mumwe zvinoita chokuita mwana. Girls vakarerwa nevabereki vari voga, katsika mhirizhonga kakawanda kupfuura vakomana. Mhuri zvakare apo amai ruvengo uye mafungiro nyika, uye kuti chikoro zvikurukuru. Chisimba mwana haatongwi, riri kuonekwa kwomuzvarirwo kuonana ne "vavengi". Uyezve, mhuri apo kazhinji vabereki kukakavara uye kunetsana pamberi mwana. Muzviitiko zvakadaro, hwomwana mufananidzo maitiro kunouya. Vana rangarirai kuti vabereki kugarisana uye projecting pamusoro kufurirwa ukama. Uyezve, vana vane majini kubatwa kune utsinye, chisimba rinowanzoshandiswa kuchikoro. Ndivo zvikonzero. Saizvozvowo novimba zvakaipa kwemba kambani. Saka, takakurukura chii mhirizhonga kuchikoro. Ndiani honzeri, uye ndiani wacho, uye nei zvinoitika. Parizvino, utsanzi mu dzidzo kubvumira vabereki kuti kunyatsoongorora kuongorora upenyu hwomwana kuchikoro. Asi usakanganwa pamusoro nyore zvinhu kuratidza zvakawanda rudo uye hanya daze wako. Issues akadai mhirizhonga kuchikoro, zviri nyore kudzivirira pane kugadzirisa.