Nzira yekuropafadza mwanakomana wako musati waroora uye izvo zvaunoda izvi

Kubva pamazuva ekare muRussia, chimwe chezvinhu zvakakosheswa kare kusati kwachato chikwata chaiva chikomborero chevabereki. Icho chirevo chezwi iri chinonzwika se "kurumbidza ramangwana".

Sei tichida chikomborero chevabereki?

Chisarudzo chevaduku kuroora kana kuroora kana kurwisana nemubereki hachina kumbovimbisa chero chinhu chakanaka, nokuti chikomborero chevabereki chete chemuchato chaifungidzirwa sechipfuurira kune hupenyu hwemhuri inofadza, akapa rugare nekubudirira. Yakatumidzwa nekutenda kwechokwadi, yakanga ine simba rinokosha uye zvinoreva. Chiitiko chekukomborera chakanga chakamanikidzika zvokuti kana mwenga nemukomba ari nherera, vakatendeukira kune vanamwarikadzi, uye kana vasina kuvakanganwa, zvino vanhu vakakurumbira vakakokwa kumabasa evabereki vakadyarwa, avo vana vanofarira vaifanira kubatsira nekuremekedza kusvikira vakwegura. Nhasi, pasinei nekuchinja kwehupenyu hwechizvarwa chitsva, maitiro emafashoni nekudhakwa kwevechidiki vemazuva ano, tsika dzemazana emakore dzichiri dzakasimba. Zvisinei, sei kuropafadza mwana wake musati waroorana, kuti aite sei ichi chiitiko chitsvene nemwanasikana wake, zvinosuruvarisa, havasi vose vanoyeuka uye vanoziva.

Ndeipi nzira yekuropafadzwa inofanira kuitwa?

Saka, ngatiedzei kuona kuti tingaropafadza sei mwanakomana wenyu tisati taroorana? Maererano netsika yekare, chikomborero chinotevera: mushure mokunge nzira yekudzikinurwa kwemwenga muimba yake yapfuura, vasati vauya kuhofisi yekunyora, nguva isati yabuda, vabereki vanotora mufananidzo wekare weMuponesi neMhandara mumba , muwani nemukomba vanotarisana nevabereki vavo , Uye avo, zvakare, vanovaroverera muchinjikwa pamusoro pechiratidzo, verenga munyengetero uye utaure mazwi avo ekuparadzanisa. Chikomborero chomwanakomana musati waroora (pamwe chete nevanasikana) haisi kungoda kufara uye zano rakachenjera pamusoro pokuti unochengetedza sei, asiwo kubvumirwa kwekusarudzwa kwevana kwehafu yavo yechipiri. Ndiko panguva ino iyo mwenga anova mwanasikana nekuda kwevabereki vomukati, uye mukomba, maererano, mwanakomana kune vabereki vomuchato. Iyi miitiro inogara ichigunzva zvikuru uye inowanzosiya mumwe munhu asina hanya. Mumazuva ekare, mushure mekukomborerwa kwemhemberero, mwenga aigara achichema, sezvo akasiya imba yababa vake nokusingaperi.

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Usati wakomborera mwanakomana wako usati waroora kana kuti mwanasikana wako, iwe unofanirwa kuve nechokwadi chokuti vechidiki vakabhabhatidzwa ndivo chiitiko chekuita tsika. Mutsika, mwanasikana aifanira kukomborerwa nemufananidzo waamai vaMwari, asi zvaive zvichikwanisa kuropafadza mwanakomana wake musati warochato sechiratidzo chaKristu Muponesi naNicholas Wonder-worker. Mifananidzo iyo vabereki vakakomborera vaduku, mushure momuchato, vakatumirwa kune avo vakaroorana kuti vachengetedze uye vadzivirire mhuri yavo yakaoma yakafara kwemakore akawanda. Vanova mhuri chaiyo heirloom uye vanozvipira kubva kumarudzi kusvika kumarudzi.

Sezvinotaurwa neBhaibheri, Mwari akapa baba namaamai simba rinopfuura revana, ravanofanira kushandisa nekuchenjera uye nerudo. Nokudaro, chiitiko chekuropafadzwa kwevabereki ndeyekudedera, kufadza uye nguva yakatarisa kwete chete kune vakaroorana, asiwo kune vabereki vavo.