Rudo - ndiani ichi?

Ungaita sei kudana murume aida vakadzi vazhinji? Voice kubva vateereri: "Mutsa - ndiyo dudziro kuti chinokodzera naye." Ndizvozvo. Zvino ngatitarise kubata avo, chii vari varume nevakadzi uye chii kuti kunzwisisa - rudo.

Two Mhando ukama kumukadzi sechinhu chinhu uye somunhu pasi

Pamberi zvose mavara kunyora chii Amorous (tinonzwisisa gare gare), tinofanira kuita methodological Handimupinduri.

Erich Fromm akanyora basa anoshamisa, "Ivai kana Kuva" (1976). yayo yose ndeyokuti kuti vanhu vanogona kurondedzera nyika uye nevamwe vanhu, inobva maviri rinopikisa Pfungwa gadziriro. In yepasi rimwe - pfungwa nhaka, apo nyika uye vamwe vanhu uye zvinhu chete kuonekwa mano kuti vabudirire pazvinangwa womunhu yavo. Mumwe kunosanganisira kunangiswa nekuva, kana ose chinhu wenyika kunonzwisiswa wenguva naye. Tichingotarisa, zvinosiyana nyore: mumwe dzinofambiswa norudo ( "kuva"), apo mumwe chete anoda kudzora uye kugamuchira ( "kuva"). Zvombo anodiwa yokungotaura ruzivo, tinosvika mhinduro yomubvunzo wokuti rudo - ndiani ichi?

Henk Mudi sezvo muenzaniso murume anoda vakadzi zvechokwadi

A mufananidzo zvakajeka gamba kuti "Californication" kuchakubatsira kunzwisisa vanhu vasingabvumi kufanana zvesayenzi tsanangudzo ndiani murume rudo. Hank vakadzi vazhinji uye vose zvaanoda nenzira yake. In wokutanga mumwaka ane kuenda kumariro yababa vake, uye iye, senguva mumafirimu, anopinda muna ndangariro pake. Pakati pezvimwe zvinhu, mwanakomana zvakajeka akanzwa ari musoro wake mashoko ababa vake: "Zvose vakadzi ndava akasangana, ndaifarira. Mumwe makore 10 okuberekwa, uye mumwe maminitsi 10. " Zvimwe - yakanakisisa tsanangudzo rudo, izvo zvinogona kupiwa.

Uyewo, Hank anoramba chero kufanana nababa vake kunyange chinhu, achiita saizvozvo. Anoda vakadzi zvikuru pachokwadi uye udyire, vachikumbira chinhu kudzoka. Sezvaunoziva, gamba resents baba vake chii akapa mai vake. Ndinofunga mushure ichi havafaniri kuva dambudziko, rudo - ndiani ichi? All pachena. Kunyange zvakadaro, ndinoda kukuudza vo pamusoro murume-mutengi.

Alphonse - anogara tichiregeredza vakadzi

Vaiona nechipi, kunyange dzinozivikanwa hunhu Russian chaichoicho, asi dzimwe nguva kunoitika. Panguva ino, kana tsika yakasananiswa, varume kuva zvechikadzi uye infantile, uye dzimwe nguva achibvumira pachavo kurarama, kuvimba musikana, orudzi urwu kunouya mhiri zvakawanda uye kakawanda. Uye zvaisazova kunyanya kuipa kana murume hwaibva vakadzi zvakasiyana-siyana kwete zvinofadza chaizvo ezvinhu kana kamwe kusawirirana muupenyu, asi kwete. Zvinosuruvarisa kana Sezvineiwo, asi zvimwe nzira anogutsa.

Classical mabhuku anozivawo nyaya dzakadaro. Somuenzaniso tinogona kutora rimwe protagonists nyaya AP "Gooseberries" Chekhov vake. Rangarirai, pane imwe hama akaroorwa chirikadzi akapfuma uye ipapo vakauya muguva nokuda hope dzake - wemunda? Pano ane yokunyanyisa muenzaniso Alphonse. Muchiitiko chino, apo isu kuzvibvunza: "Vanhu Rudo - ndizvo," kwete, nekuti rudo pano uye asingauyi kunhuwidza.

Ukuwo, Alfonso vanogona kuva pamutemo kubvuma rudo, asi kwavari ndiko kunaka chombo, uye ivo nounyanzvi dzichengete zvose manzwiro avo uye kunzwa mumwe munhu.