Vana vari kuita "ichi" - sei kuti kuzvibata mukuru?

Vana vana kuenda kukireshi zera chaizvo nevakawanda zvakafanana pathological miitiro yakadai yakayamwa matoyi, minwe, zvipikiri nibble, bonhora (bonhora). A mamiriro ezvinhu angamuka kana mubereki anowana mwana achitamba sikarudzi dzavo. The pakutanga - kuvhunduka, dzimwe nguva chido kuranga Kusazvibata. Asi pashure chiveve achapfuura, regai vachizhamba uye anokurova maoko vomwana anofanira nyore kukurira nyaya iyi uye kunzwisisa sei kuti vazvibate uye zvokuita kana vana vari kuita "izvozvo."

Bonhora ari mwana muduku. Zvokuita?

Iwe kura sembudzana anoshamisa, uye kamwe kunouya nguva paunoona kuti mwana anobata kana anotamba sikarudzi yake. The mubvunzo unomuka: chii? Vana kuziva, riri chaizvo chaivo kukura mwana, kana tsika pathological - yebonhora (bonhora)? Uye kana vana vanogona kuita "ichi"?

Mutsara dambudziko

Kazhinji, munguva kukura kwemwana rinowanika kufarira kudzidza vechirume muviri. Vana ona vezera ravo uye vakuru kupfeka muviri, panguva iyoyo hapana zvishoma zvinonakidza kwavari ndiko kudzidza muviri pachako nezvekufadza yenyu. Nendumure kuongorora sikarudzi dzavo kuburikidza mitambo, scratching, kusekwa kana kuvabata. Pakadaro, hapana chakaipa, pane zvishande muitiro. Asi kana mwana uyu ari kutambura manzwiro akanaka, iyo ngaive hune, ari kweiyi nhengo dzakavandika inova dzose kwaari.

Zvinoita kukurira "kuti" vana?

Achiri mangwanani mumakore 2-3 kutaura mwana pamusoro bonhora, sezvo asinganzwisisi chii bonhora haazivi kuti kubata pachavo uye vamwe dzapedyo nzvimbo vaiona kunaka. Bonhora - kuvarairwa nzira, sezvamakaropafadzwa mupfungwa buditsa kunoitika. Kazhinji "zviri" varara panzvimbo yakachengeteka. Kana bonhora kuitika nguva dzose, zvino inova tsika pathological.
Kana mwana anobvunza mibvunzo pamusoro rakazaruka maumbirwo womuviri, musiyano pakati pemurume nemukadzi kana musikana uye mukadzi, zvinokosha kuti vazvibate nomutsa uye kupindura mibvunzo nevana, uye haanyari navo. Uyu dzinongoitika kufarira uye danho idzva iri kukura mupfungwa uye ruzivo rwenyika. Kazhinji, kufarira ichibudira pakati pemakore 3 6 makore, ipapo kupera, kusvikira kuyaruka.

Predictors kuti vana bonhora

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  Vasiri - somugumisiro chinoshingaira nevakwegura, unhu hunodiwa zvinoerera kubva mupfungwa mupfungwa.
• Psychological - ari mwana kunzwa Kusabatsira, anonzwa kusurukirwa, asingadiwi, pane kushayikwa kworudo vabereki uye nehanya.
• Clinical - murombo hope uye kukotsira kwenguva refu achitungamirira kudiwa mupfungwa kusunungurwa.

Uyewo chinokonzera chitarisiko bonhora aigona zvimwe zvinokonzerwa:

• voga munzanga vana;
• mukuru excitability uye nemanzwiro mwana;
• pasava noushamwari amai kana zvinhu asina kufunga kwababa;
• panyama kurangwa;
• kana zvepabonde mwana haana akasangana zvomurayiro vabereki.

Zvokuita?

Saka, vaduku vana vari kuzviita kazhinji. Kana ukabatwa mwana wako kuti rebonhora, pakutanga kwezvose, regai vanowira vanoziya, tuka mwana wavo kana kuti riitwe vachirikitwa. Zvakakosha kuratidza kuzvidzora uye vaifanira kuti nokungwarira.

Kana mwana muduku, edza chinyararire idzokere pfungwa dzake chimwe kuita. Kana ari mwana chikoro zera, kudzikama maitiro kunodiwawo. Kana achakwanisa kukuteerera, unofanira kukurukura mamiriro ezvinhu, asi chero zvakadaro hazvibviri zvisizvo uye kutyisidzira. Maitiro akadaro ari chikamu vabereki vanogona chete sembura zvinhu. Just kuudza pachako kuti zviri kunaka kana vana vari kuita "izvozvo." The chikoro angava navo vachaita hurukuro kwepfungwa, asiwo kumba kutaura mwana, kwete "okushambadza" iye.

Zvaunofanira kuita bonhora kwakanga kusina tsika pathological?

Danho rokutanga nderokuwana chakonzera bonhora. Havafaniri kupiwa zvikuru kukosha uye kutyisidzira nembudzana migumisiro yakaipa tsika dzakaipa. Kakawanda, uye kutyisidzira kuvadza pfungwa mwana uye kuputsa ramangwana.

Haugoni kunyange kukurukura chisingafadzi yacho, chete kushandura nzira dzidzo. Vana kazhinji imomu kubva kusadiwa uye kana vabereki mukamusiya amene. Kazhinji varumbidze mwana, mukurudzire kutaura manzwiro uye manzwiro, akamupa zvakakwana chitsama kurovedza muviri. Ipa mwana wako rusununguko rwokusarudza sei kukurukura kakawanda naye panguva unzenza shinda, kunzvenga zvokuita uye moralizing, kudzidza zvakanaka sei chimiro rekusuwa. Time vaitire zvirwere chokuita urology uye Gynecology.

Zvinokoshawo kuti kuongorora mamiriro mhando dzezvipfeko mwana. Zvinhu kuva dzakanaka, dzakachena. Regai kunyadzisa mwana, kukurukura nyaya bonhora pamberi vatorwa, regai kuronga kubvunzurudza nemazamanishoni. Batsirai mwana wenyu kuwana chitandadzo, mabiko itsva kuramba oga, aigona kuramba iye inogarwa.

Hatifaniri kukanganwa kuti bonhora - inzira ndichiva kubvisa rekusuwa. Kana kubvisa voltage panobva, uye kudiwa zvichapfuura achitevedzera manzwiro. Kana tsika pathological kunoenderera kusvikira makore 10, unofanira kubvunza nyanzvi, nekuti mhaka bonhora pazera iri rinogona kukonzerwa kufurirwa vanhu vane chirwere chepfungwa.

Inosimudzira hyper mwana kana mangwanani psychosexual budiriro inogona kutungamirira bonhora. Vana vakawanda vari kuita izvi, nokuti havagoni kukurira kuratidzwa mangwanani kukura kwakadaro. Kudheerera mumamiriro ezvinhu maturo. Vana vanoda rubatsiro rwako uye nokunzwisisa. Unofanira kuziva kuti mangwanani psychosexual kukura anogona uye anofanira kubatwa, zvimwe vakabva midzi bonhora kunogona kukonzera zvakakomba chirwere chepfungwa vana.

In mhedziso

Vabereki vachiedza kurambidza zvaiva nechokuita dambudziko hakuzopedzi mhaka pathological netsika. Nokuti dziviriro inofanira kuva normalize kuti ukama mumhuri, kubata pamwe mwana, akaisa nyoro kuvimba ukama naye. Undosangana mupfungwa zvinodiwa mwana ari kutarisirwa uye rudo, nguva dzose kuronga kutandara chaiko mabasa, uyewo kuita kuti kukura vana okugadzira zvinhu. Zvino dambudziko chii nevana vari kuita "izvozvo" vachanyangarika roga!