Kufara uye vanodiwa? Unongofanira kudzidza nayo!

mukadzi wese anorota mumwoyo guru, rudo chairwo. Kunyange kana pakutanga kutarisa unofunga kuti ayo kukoshesa - basa, mari, mukurumbira, mukurumbira uye nokukudzwa, kuti zvakaedza muchinda bhiza jena haasiyi naye kunyange ava kutandadza. Asi zviri kunaka dzimwe nguva Rinotarisira njodzi isu, kupa munhu kubva pakuberekwa zvose zvinodiwa kuti pave hope ichi, uye munhu, achisiya chikepe afare. Kanopfuura kamwe ndaifanira kunzwa kubva pavakadzi vemazera ose, "Lyusya akakunda chii - makumbo kubva hura, chiso, nhamba, mari mugodhi, uye musoro wangu kuti chimwe chinhu, kunyange zvazvo tsvukuruka kupendwa, varume rakapoteredzwa akafanana nenhunzi dzinodzengerera, uye I. makore matatu ... handigoni yavangabata cellulite, ndinoshanda sezvo nemunhu pamusoro bhurukwa haawanzotauri zvakakwana ... Ndianiko zvandinoda kunze mutyairi bhazi Vaska? "vakadzi, iwe, ini kutsaurira nyaya ino achakuudzai sei kuti ufare uye vanodiwa.

Chokutanga, ndinoda kukunyaradzai. Kuti udzidze sei kufara uye vanodiwa, tinofanira kufunga zvishoma. No vanofanira kuva Hollywood nezviso uye zvakasimba chikwama, kuitira kuti vawane mufaro yevanhukadzi. Asi pano pamberi musoro uye yemhando pfungwa pezvakaitwa kunodiwa! MuJapan kwemazana emakore akawanda kudzidza sayenzi "ari kuda rudo." Munyika dzokuEurope, zvakanzi kubatwa somunhu banal "yepamusorosoro-Up", "kubviswa" unyanzvi. Asi chokwadi, sayenzi Japanese kunobatsira kugara ari mweya munhu kunzwa, kwete Munoshuva, rinopa zivo sei kukura uye kuramba rudo, kwete sei kupedza usiku dutu. Saka, vaya vanoda kuziva sei kufara uye vanodiwa, dzokai musoro wako uye yeuka.

Danho rokutanga chaizvo kuti zvakafanira kuti - kumisa chinodiwa chipfuro kuonana. Zvichienderana womunhu, kuonana zvingava zvakasiyana. Kana munhu ane extrovert, kubva "vanotaura" pakati rudzi, wako kwehwamanda kadhi - kutukana uye nevateereri. Nomusoro zvatinosiita nokukurumidza, aanoshandisa, intonation ake, kushandisa dzimwe nhengo dzomuviri uye kushandisa navo kukurukura naye. Vasingambozvifungire, achakutenderai sechinhu yaizivikanwa yake pachake nzvimbo. Kana, nekusiyana, vakanyarara, kufunga, kufanana oga, nzira yakanakisisa yokubuda - kushandisa yakadzika tactile kuonana. Kuhwina munhu akadaro rakaoma zvikuru, iye anotya uye usarega pedyo naye nokutenda zvakanaka, zvaanoda, hapana munhu. Deep tactile kuonana - akwirwe pamusoro nezvekufadza. Regai kutora shoko sezvairi uye kumhanya asi "paw" murombo kumativi ose. Touch inofanira unobtrusive, vakasununguka, uye nzira yakanakisisa kutanga kutaurirana pamwe kubata akacherekedza. Meso ako anofanira vakwanise munhu kuaverenga, kuti iye - zvakanakisisa, chete uye wechokwadi. vanoti hazvina zvakakodzera kuti ruzha !!!! Uye yeuka, mumaziso anofanira zvinooneka chete zvaunoda kuti asaudza zvakawanda.

Danho Next. Communication subconscious pfungwa yakatarwa, tinosimbisa kubatana pakati chavanoziva. Kashoma kuti zvinhu iwe tarisa, zviri nani. Hazvina zvakafanira kuratidza zvepabonde yavo - kupa munhu mukana kuona munhu wokutanga mamuri, zvimwe zvichaita kuti kutsigira nemakumbo refu, uye iwe acharasikirwa. basa rako - kuva shamwari. Kwete shamwari, asi shamwari. Unofanira kuwana rukudzo, kuvimba vashoma, akawana nevakawanda zvinodiwa nemunhu. Yeuka, isu vanoda kukurukura nevaya vanogona kuita chinhu chitsva kupa. Regai uchadzidza chinhu, usazeza kubvunza mibvunzo benzi - nayo anobata vanhu. Asi Usaita nayo! Iwe sevasina brainless chisikwa! In musoro wako unofanira kuwana chinhu chinonakidza kuti iye, uye mumwoyo mako - kudzama kunzwisisa, kuzvitsaurira uye tsika dzakanaka.

Danho rechitatu kunokosha chaizvo. Rakanga pano kuti vokuJapan anoratidza sayenzi sei kudiwa uye kukosheswa. Ndiyo nguva kuratidza romukadzi kwavo uye kukwezva. Asi! Hapana nyaya regai kuita zvakajeka! Ratidza zvishoma nudity, Anobata ziso, uye ipapo, sokunge netsaona. Regai netsaona kusimuka ngaasungirire pamwe sarafanchik, kudura yakanaka mafudzi, kunyange isakafanira achabvisa bhatani paari bhurauzi, asi mumwe chete, zvapupu zvakavanzika, asi kwete mukuchizivisa. Musakanganwa kuti dzinokaroparuka kuva tsuka meso kunyadziswa uye pakarepo pachena kuti pedyo ukama haafaniri kuverenga newe. Nzira yakanakisisa kuti munhu aite zvaunoda - kuisa pamberi pavo chipingamupinyi kuti chinonetsa kukunda. Uye achaita kuchikunda, unokoshesa mukombe wako achava zvikuru kupfuura zvaanenge rawa mumaoko pachayo.

Zvakanaka, zvose zvinoenderana iwe, vakadzi. Chinhu chikuru kuti anofanira kuva nguva dzose nemi - nayo kuti uropi. Unofanira chinangwa nezvemabatiro kuonana uchida kuhwina. Ongorora nayo sezvo chaihwoihwo nemasvomhu, kuchengeta zvishomanana kamhepo - gait, nhengo dzomuviri, chiso chedu, chinofema mutinhimira - zvose zvinhu. Kana munhu anongotaura somunhu, edza ari zvaari woga, edza kufunga, kunzwa uye kuita sezvaakaita. Zvadaro uri zvinenge 15% muzana tinosvika zviri musoro wake, uye pauwandu hweavo izvi achakupa kukunda. Kanganwa pamusoro zvose manzwiro iyi chinonzi chete chikonzero. Uye yeuka mufundisi mutemo - isu vanoda isu. Panguva iyoyo, kana uine vamwe murume, unofanira kuzvimanikidza pachangu kuti tinomuda uye kumuremekedza nomwoyo wose. Zvikasadaro, unyengeri wako achava pachena, hazvina zvakakodzera, uye kuenda mutambo.

Heunoi iye, sayenzi Japanese. Uye inoshanda panguva 100%. Asi ndinobvuma kwauri nokutendeseka, I kurishandisa chete kana zviri nani kwandiri. Uye munyaya mumwoyo handina kupindira. Nokuti rinokudzidzisa sei kuva kufarira. Kufara - kwete. Kukwanisa kuwana mufaro rudo akafanana Kurumi, akaunganidza maoko ake. Unogona chete kuwana kugutsikana nebasa aita zvakanaka uye kupfeka cabinet, sezvo imwe zviratidzwa. Uye kudzidza kufara uye aida ndiye chete uyo zvechokwadi, mwoyo, kwete musoro, rudo zvechokwadi here. Uye kana mumwe munhu akakubvunza kuti ini kana ndiri pachangu kufara, ini ndichapindura pasina kumbozengurira: "Hongu, zvachose. Nekuti ndine mudzidzisi! "