Kujairirana - munhu swagger uye kupengeswa kana vakasununguka pakukurukurirana uye nehanya nevamwe?

Latin "familiaris" rinoreva "mhuri", "musha." Nokudaro, "kujairirana". Zvinoreva shoko yachinja pamusoro nguva. By pakutanga XVIII remakore mumutauro wokuRussia, shoko anotanga nezvacho. The mudzi Latin chiri kushaya aimbova kukosha. Kujairirana zvinoreva zvino kunaka, intrusive nyore swagger.

The upenyu neimwe rakakamurwa munhu wose, uye uya anoramba vakavharirana madhoo, nemhuri kana shamwari. Munhu kupinda yomukati, denderedzwa yomukati, anekodzero rusununguko munhaurirano. Mudiwa anekodzero kukupa zano Unsolicited, womuratidza dzimwe payakaipira, zvakadai sezvipfeko kana chitarisiko. Ngatitii amai anopa mwanasikana wake kukura zano worudzii nguvo nani pamamiriro ezvinhu. Kujairirana iri? Kazhinji, kwete. Pashure pezvose, mwanasikana, zvakare, unogona kubatsira amai vangu pamwe pakusarudza zvokupfeka, anotungamirirwa chainaka.

Zviri chimwe chinhu kana munhu pedyo shamwari kana nhengo yemhuri kuti mazano chinhu kuchinjira manyorero mapfekero, uye ndeimwewo - apo kujairika vanhu vachiwombera iwe pamafudzi uye kutaura chinhu chakafanana, "dude, usingakwani muchikwata ichi chisungo / bhachi / juzi ". Kujairirana iri? Hapana mubvunzo.

Pfungwa kuti vaiziva uye chii haisi, pamusoro nguva, Chokwadi, kuchinja sezvo nemitemo undere, upenyu hwemhuri. Somuenzaniso, iye zvino mhuri dzakawanda vana Musadana vabereki kuti "iwe", zvaiva zvikuru zvakasikwa kwemamwe makore zana apfuura. Kana iwe kudhonza shure kunyange mberi, uchaona Funny kusarudza kuti pane kujairirana. Izvi Somuenzaniso, anorondedzera Saltykov -Schedrin mu "Poshehonsky kare." Jaya akakwazisa, akapa amai Takatarira pashure, ruoko - zvakanzi akarondedzerwa se "zvisingagamuchirwi kujairirana."

Asi shure nhasi. Pane zvinhu zvinogona kukurukurwa nevanhu ausingazivi kana vandinotaura navo - okunze, zvematongerwo enyika uye zvichingodaro. Uye zviri pachena kuti pane nyaya kuti munhu wose angangotadza kuda kukurukura pachena uye angangotadza kutambura chipingaidzo ari zvoupenyu munhu bato. Uye muRussia zviri kugamuchirwa kuvatorwa uye kujairika vanhu vakatendeukira mumwe "iwe", kuenda zvishoma pamutemo "iwe" zviri nani uye kukumbira shamwari chisarudzo.

Familiar munhu haadi kucherechedza kuvapo mitemo iyi. Iye decouples uye zvakare akaisa-musana kutaura. Muchiitiko chino, dzimwe nguva zvinoita sokuti iye ake kujairirana kuti - ichi ndizvo zvinosiyana rudo uye hanya. Hachisi chokwadi. Iye uye makuru hanya pachake interlocutor, uye akaita. Iye zvechokwadi anoda inzwi rake chete zvakarurama, nemaonero, kumanikidza ose ayo chete zvinogamuchirika mitemo. Haana kuzeza chii anoisa interlocutor yake imwe vachinyara nzvimbo nokubvunza mibvunzo pachedu, achipa zano Unsolicited. An nyore yezwi "iwe" kunyange kana kubata munhu mukuru pachake, tisingatauri pamusoro vezera, hazvina vadzime miganhu uye zvinetso zvitsva pakukurukurirana. Handiti, zvakakodzera kupindura, uye kudekara "-pointing" hakubvumirwi wose.

Inozivikanwa vanhu anongoti zvakaipisisa kukurisa. Dzimwe nguva hazvisi tariro, uye zvikuru amenable kuti dzidzo. Kana kutambura miganhu zvinogamuchirika uye chii anobvumirwa, saka unogona kuwana chaizvo shamwari yakanaka.