Kukurukurirana of kudyidzana

Munhu wose anofanira kukurukura kubva pakuberekwa. Kutaurirana pakati vanhu vanogona kukamurwa zvitatu zvine chokuita: maonero, kukurukurirana uye kudyidzana. Interesting ndechokuti kana zvichibvira kusangana maonero kana kukurukurirana "chimiro wakachena", kureva kuti, kubva mamwe zvinoumba kudyidzana oga, ipapo sarudza Communication sezvo kudyidzana ari oga Mutsara kwakaoma zvisingaiti.

Zita izvi kare unobereka kukosha basa chero chinhu: "Iye wakandisunda kuita chinhu," "It anoisa kumanikidzwa kwandiri, asi ini regai" kana "It zvinoenderana neni".

Communication sezvo kudyidzana zvinoda zvinoshingaira kuita pokukurukurwa interlocutors maviri. Uye kana kukurukura kutaurirana iri shoma chete kudyidzana ruzivo, uye maonero - chete auscultation vamwe mafungiro evanhu, iwe chero pavakanzwa interlocutor anoisa kukurukurirana kwacho ari muboka yakasiyana vane.

Vamwe vanhu vachinetseka kukurukurirana. Zvikonzero akasiyana chaizvo. Autism, kutadza kutaura kwavo kufunga, kunyara uye reticence achitungamirira chokwadi kuti munhu wacho akavharwa mukati pacharo, ndiko kugona chete kuona, asi zviri pachena kuti hazvirevi sei mashoko.

Zvishoma nezvishoma, vanhu vakanga Sezvakangoita mhepo zvakakodzera pakupindurwa interlocutor, murume kutanga kuti denderedzwa. Uye pasina! Kakawanda, nokuti reticence uye zvokunze yokuzviparadzanisa rinomuvanza zvinyoronyoro tsitsi mwoyo, uye mukati kunoramba kuitwa basa zvokunamata zvakadzama. Uye kana munhu achakwanisa "kutaura" kukunda pamusoro hunhu, dzokai zvake maonero ari kukurukura sezvo kudyidzana, ndiye zvikuru rombo. Best chipangamazano uye shamwari, zvichida, kwete kuwanikwa yose.

Vanhu vari kungangoitika, kunyanya pakati pavakadzi, uyo pachavo zvinetso interlocutors dzavo kutaura chokwadi kuti vanosarudza chete kommukativnuyu divi kukurukurirana. vanhu vakadaro, vakafanana huni Grouse pamusoro naAmareki. Kuisa hapana yakarurama ruzivo, hazvina kufunga kana zvinofadza munhu asi kwavari, ivo vasataure zvavo yokukurukurirana iri zvachose vasingafariri mafungiro interlocutor. Izvi "mutambo pamwe chinangwa chimwe chete" - zvechokwadi kwete kutaurirana sezvo kudyidzana!

Zvaunofanira kuziva munhu vanoda kuva shamwari yakanaka kana chinangwa kuratidza chinhu kana kushandisa chikumbiro kushandura pfungwa dzake 'ishamwari "?

Pasinei yokuti tose tifunge kuti chinhu chaizvo chaiitika, uye ipapo isu Chat, hazvina zvakakodzera kudzidzisa zvose zvakafanana varipo vamwe mitemo kukurukurirana. Pashure pezvose, zvikurukuru kuchengeta kukurukurirana - ari sayenzi!

Wokutanga nezvevakafa kuitika pakati vaviri nhaurirano sezvo ndiro kukurukurirana, kune imwe uye vakarongeka - ndicho pakugoverwa zvakarurama interlocutors nzvimbo. Kureva, mumamiriro ezvinhu ndiye tenzi uye mumwe - muranda. Pataikurukura vanofanira kutevera "pachiremera murayiro".

kutungamirira chinzvimbo anewo pachake kupesana rayo mu "foromani" uye "ponimatelya". Muchiitiko chokutanga, kukurukurirana kunobva pachido kutarisira mamiriro ezvinhu uye chido kudzora. Kukurukura kwakadaro haisi nguva dzose zvinofadza muranda, saka chaizvoizvo vanhu vanoedza sezvo shoma sezvinobvira kukurukura nevanhu - ". nevatungamiri"

Kana yechipiri, vaitungamirira nzvimbo zvinogona kuonekwa sezvo kwakavakirwa pfungwa wakaenzana pakati interlocutors. Pano mukuru basa reDare chido kutungamirira kutarisira pasina mukurwisana, kunzwisisa mumwe wako uye kusvika dzekuno chibvumirano, uye inogutsa mberi Nhaurirano. Ndizvo nevanhu vakadaro zvinofadza zvikuru kutaura, kunzwisisa yakapoteredza kunyange pasinei zvabuda zvaiva zvechokwadi zvechokwadi. Mushure kubatana nevanhu vake chakuvhuvhu ari kugeza inosiya manzwiro inofadza kuti mumwe munhu nokunyatsodzidza dambudziko uye akaedza kubatsira.

It anotevera kubva uchapupu ichi: kana uchida vanhu kutaura uye vangada kuonana nemi, edza kunzwisisa kwavari, mira pamusoro nzvimbo wakanyatsojeka, kunyange kana kuti uri akakumbira kana zano.