Matambudziko mukurera vana

Kurera mwana hakusi nyore. Anokumbira kubva kuvabereki simba rekuita uye rune simba, kushivirira, uchenjeri, kukwanisa kupa zvibayiro zvavo nekuda kwemwana.

Nzira iyi inotanga-famba kwazvo, pakarepo mwana paanotanga kufamba ari oga, anodzidza kudya, kuita zvigadziriswa zvehutano. Nezera remakore matatu, mwana anozviziva iye somunhu akasiyana kubva kuna amai vake nababa. Ikoko ndiko kunotanga matambudziko, ayo magwepistori anodana dambudziko remakore matatu.

Iyi nguva yeupenyu hwecheche inokosha zvikuru. Zvechokwadi, zvose zvinoitika kumwana zvinokosha. Asi kune vatatu vane makore, chero tsanangudzo, chero shoko ripi neripi, vabereki vanoita zvakakosha.

Matambudziko edzidzo

Makore mashanu kusvika kumatanhatu ehupenyu hwemwana ane kukosha kwekukosha kwekudzidzisa, ndiyo nheyo yekubvumirana kwayo kwakakwana. Iko panguva iyi iyo maitiro, tsika, uye mafungiro anoumbwa. Kana vabereki vakavaka mhando isina kukodzera yezvidzidzo, ichabatanidza nekuchinja hupenyu hwemhuri kuva mhirizhonga isingagumi. Nenguva yechikoro mwana akanaka achakura kubva kumwana akanaka, uyo asingadi kuve akadzidziswa, asi kuti adzokere zvakare.

Vabereki vemwana anenge asvika pakureba kwemakore matatu, nyore nyore kupindura mubvunzo uyu, chii chinetso chokurera vana? Kazhinji kazhinji, urongwa hwezvinetso hunosanganisira zvinhu zvinotevera:

• Kuipa kusateerera kune chero chirevo;
• Kuora mwoyo;
• Inattention;
• Kusagadzikana;
• Kunyangadza, kutya;
• Tendency kune vanyengeri munzvimbo dzevanhu.

Zvose izvi zviratidzo zvekutambudzika kwemakore. Mwana wacho anotsvaka kusimbisa kuti ndiani, anoramba rubatsiro rwevakuru. Iye haasi akaderera kunotambudzwa kusateerera uye vabereki vane utsinye: mwana haanzwisisi zviri kuitika kwaari, sei achigara achitsoropodzwa, munhu wese akarambidzwa, akabviswa, anorangwa.

Nzira yekukudziridza tsvina

Hazvigoneki kuponesa dambudziko remakore matatu pasina matambudziko. Kunyange vabereki vakachenjera zvikuru, avo vasiri ivo vokutanga kukura, nguva nenguva vanoona mamwe matambudziko mukurera vana vavo.

Ungabatsira sei munhu muduku? Chokutanga pane zvose, iva nemwoyo murefu. Uye zvino-kushanda, kushanda uye kushanda. Mamiriro ekumanikidzirwa edzidzo yakarurama kunaka, kusimba, uye kusagadzikana. Pasi pemvumo yekudzivirira kodzero, mirairo uye kurangwa. Zvechokwadi, hazvibviri kubvuma kutengesa demosiro yakawandisa: mwana haasati ava nemakore iwayo kuita zvisarudzo zvokuzvisarudzira. Asi kuti uitungamirire zvinyoro, asi unoramba uchidaro, nguva dzose kufara, kurumbidzwa kwekubudirira uye kwete kugara pazvikanganiso zvinodiwa.

Chinonyanya kukosha ndechekukurukurirana zuva nezuva nemwana. Pazera remakore matatu kubatana kunoshandiswa kwemwana kunotanga: anoenda kuchikoro chechikoro. Vamwe vana vanotsungirira nyore kuchinja kwemhepo uye kuparadzana kwenguva refu kubva kuna amai vavo, vamwe vanoona kushungurudzika, izvo zvisingakwanisi kubvisa kwenguva refu. Zvechokwadi, nguva iyi yekugadzirisa inofambidzana nekuchema, negativism, hysterics. Zvakakosha kutsaurira nguva yakawanda sezvinobvira kumwana: kuenderera mberi kwevhiki kuenda kune paki, kutarisa kumativi ose enyika uye kukurukura zvaakaona, kufambira mberi mumugwagwa uye kutamba mitambo yemhuri yakadzikama, kuverenga nekukwevera, kuveza chimwe chinhu pamwe chete kubva kuPlasinine. Uye kugara achitaura nemwana: taurira nyaya, verenga nhetembo, tsanangura mitemo yekukurukura nevamwe vana nevakuru, kurudzira kutaura zvakasimba, kuongorora nyika yakavapoteredza.

Nzira yekudzidzisa inofanira kuvakwa maererano nemitemo inotevera:

• Kuomerera kunonzwisisika;
• Kukurudzira kuzvidzora;
• Kubudirira kwemuviri uye mupfungwa;
• Constant collaboration.

Kana paiva nehuwandu hwevanhu, unofanira kuchengeta kugadzikana kweOlympic. Pasinei nenyaya haikwanisi kubvumira zvinodiwa nemucheche - izvi hazvizobatsiri kudzivirira matanho anotevera ekumanikidzwa. Nzvimbo yakachengetwa uko pasina vatarisi, inzwi rakadzikama, kushivirira - ndizvo zvinoda kupedza kuratidza kusateerera. Chero mamiriro ezvinhu, mwana anofanira kunzwa rudo, kutsigirwa.

Nzira dzakasiyana dzedzidzo

Kazhinji vabereki mukutora mwana vanoona kusanzwisiswa kwezvinangwa uye nzira dzekudzidzisa. Mumwe wevabereki anonyorovesa, uye mumwe munhu anozvibvumira kukura uye flip flops. Zvose izvi zvinobva kumhuri umo vabereki vakakura. Kana amai nababa vasingabvumirani, kukakavara hakugoni kuitika. Kazhinji vanowedzera kuva matambudziko uye vanogona kuguma mukurambana. Uye zvakadini nemucheche? Achakurira kutya, kunyara, kushungurudza kana kushaya simba. Nhamba yekuzvidya mwoyo mumwana akadaro inotungamirira masayendisiti epfungwa kugumbura.

Iko kune dzimwe nguva kukakavadzana pakati pevabereki nevambuya. Iko kutanga kuedza kamwechete uye zvose kutarisa miganhu, iyo isingafaniri kutyorwa, uye iyo yekupedzisira inopedza nyore nyore mitemo yose. Zvakanaka, zvakashata kufudza mwana nechokoti, kumubvumira kurara pasi gare gare, kubvumira zvokudya pamberi peTV? Kutaura zvazviri, kusawirirana kwakadaro kunotungamirirawo kune zvinorwadza, zvinokonzera matambudziko makuru mukurera mwana.

Kubatanidzwa kwakabatana, kunotsigirwa nhengo dzose dzemhuri, ndizvo zvinofanira kuwanikwa. Kukakavadzana uye kukakavadzana hazvibvumirwi, nokuti mwana wacho anonyatsotevera zviri kuitika. Haakwanisi kutora rutivi rwemubereki umwe, sezvo achida zvose. Kutarisa vabereki vake vachikakavadzana pamusoro pake, mwana anonzwa kukura kwepfungwa mupfungwa uye pfungwa dzisina mhosva dzisina mhosva. Uye uku ndiko kunetseka mupfungwa kunogona kuparadza kuguma kwechecheche.

Ndicho chikonzero nei zvakakosha kusvika pachibvumirano. Dzidzo yakakodzera, inobva mukuremekedzwa uye rudo rwemhuri yese kune umwe, ichagadzirisa matambudziko ose.