Sei nokutuka: Tips 'seshasha'

Mumwe nomumwe wedu kanenge kamwe hwose kutukwa. In izvi, pakarepo kuda kutaura chinhu chakadaro, asi haugari kodzero mashoko, zvikamu zvemashoko uye kunyange zvaiti. Zvakaoma nokukurumidza kuwana uye sarudza zvakanaka mhinduro. Basa redu - kugadzirisa sei nokutuka kuti avhenekese interlocutor haisi anozvideredza smirk uye kuremekedza. Zvakaratidza kuti haizakadaro nyore, nokuti ichi unofanira kunzwisisa zvinhu zvishoma.

Asati chero mhinduro, unofanira kudzikama kukurira kutya kuti iwe une uye. Chokwadi, anokumhan'arira wenyu achanzwa nayo pakarepo, uye vachava danda chinzvimbo. Yeuka kuti muvengi anotya hapana zvishoma pane zvako, nekuti simba renyu - vachidavira kuti haugoni kurasikirwa. Kuti achakubatsira kuwana kodzero chichagadzirisa ezvinhu.

Kana iwe akuvadzwa pachena kutuka, sizvo netsanangudzo yenyu munzanga, zvipfeko, kana chitarisiko, Chokwadi, ndinoda pakarepo kuripa wacho ari zvakafanana. Asi ichi muchafadzwa kutarisa zvoupenzi, uye sparring, kunoitika, hapana asi kuseka uye mhosva nevamwe haungavhenekeri. The yakanakisisa rutsigiro vanenge kungosiyana mashoko: sokuti haana kucherechedza munhu akakugumbura, haasi kuda mamuri, pakupedzisira, zvakanga handiye kukodzera dzako. Muchapiwa, nditendei.

Zvakanyanya kuoma kusarudza sei nokutuka yaizivikanwa munhu. Kana wabhadhara kwaari wandaiziva, unogona kana kuita sedambe (asi izvi, mhanya mukana vakapiswa benzi), kana zvimwe kupindura kutsvinyirwa (vawira pamberi pavamwe mudonzvo). Unogona kuedza kushandisa chero paanokutsvinyira, izvo zvichakubatsira kuvhara muromo, uye mutadzi achava zvikuru witty. Somuenzaniso, kana uri kutaura pasi kungaratidzwa pamusoro wayo divi tuka mhinduro okuti yakadai: ". Unogona kuva pachako pfungwa dzenyu, asi hazvina inonakidza kwandiri"

Kana iwe kana kuti shamwari "pamusoro ndima", kufunga sei nokutuka, zvinokwanisika kushandisa imwe kwazvakarerekera musiyano wezvinyorwa: "Imi muri kwazvo kunyatsogona panyaya iyi, asi iwe vakasarudza yakanakisisa nguva uye nzvimbo kukurukura nyaya iyi." Saka, uchakwanisa mubve kunetsana, ipapo kutsiva naye panguva, kana muri kunyatsokwanisa.

Yeuka kuti chero mamiriro ezvinhu unofanira kuomerera anotungamirira chinzvimbo: kwete kunetseka, kubvisa kutya uye kunzwa chivimbo. Muvengi iyi achaedza kuvhara nyaya, kuti varege kuwira maziso nevamwe.

Munyika yanhasi, nokuda dzose uye kwenguva kukurukurirana network, pane mubvunzo sei kushorwa paIndaneti. Kazhinji, interlocutors zhinji kumboona mumwe uye havana kutaura pachavo. Dzimwe nguva matambudziko aya kuchimuka paIndaneti mitambo, apo vavengi regai skimp pamusoro Mitsara zvose zvakanaka nezvakaipa. Chokwadi, unogona kubatanawo panhengo vanhu vachishandisa mutauro unonyadzisira uye akaora, asi ziva kuti chepamusoro yenyu ive vakadzidza uye cultured murume vachawa, pakutanga kwezvose, pakufunga kwako. Uyezve, mhosva idzi pamutemo uye kunotoreva pamutemo kuita.

Pane mimwe mitemo mukuru sei nokutuka:

1. Edza kuvhura ezvinhu kuitira kuti pakanga pasina kuyerera nokuwirirana nokunyombwa uye kupomerwa. Hazvina kunaka haangatongovi, uye vachiri handizivi kana kutaura kuti munhu. Fate - chinhu nezvimwewo chinhu.
2. Kana nokutuka anobata rukudzo yako kana chiremera, regai kushandurira zvose kuva chinosekesa. Edza nomutsa uye aiswe panzvimbo imwe Exchange pasina kushevedzera.
3. Sarudza mhinduro kukurukurirana aitarisira.
4. Taura napo kwakasara matauriro.

nzira Universal kupindura kumhura kwete, nekuti zvose zvinoenderana ezvinhu uye unhu mutadzi. Zvakakosha kusarasikirwa kuzvidzora uye sarudza zvakanaka mhinduro.