Upenyu hwepabonde: Ndeipi Age Unofanira Kutanga Kuita Zvepabonde?

Ukama hwepabonde ... Zvinoshamisa kwazvo, zvinokosha kubva pamanzwiro uye munyama wevanhu vakuru. Vakomana vaduku nevanasikana vanoshamisika kuti ndezvipi zvakakosha kuti zvibatanidze chikamu chehukama hwevanhu kwekutanga, kuitira kuti musashungurudzika shure shure. Saka, kutanga kwehupenyu hwepabonde - rinofanira kuuya rini?

Kukura kwomuviri nepfungwa

Utano hukama hwepedyo hunogona kuitika chete kune vanhu vasina kungoita muviri wakakura, asiwo pfungwa yakagadzikana yakagadziridzwa. Icho chiri pasi pemamiriro aya ekuti upenyu hwepabonde hunogona kuita kuti munhu afare, kwete kwete chete mumuviri, asiwo - zvakakosha - manzwiro. Hazvina kunaka, apo vasikana vanosarudza kuparadzana nemhandara yavo nekuda kwekuti shamwari dzavo dzose dzatove dzave neshamwari. Hazvigamuchirwi kupinda muukama hwepedyo pasi pekumanikidzwa apo mukomana anotyisidzira kuparadzana nemusikana kana asingabvumi kushamwaridzana, kana, kunyanya, pasi pekutyisidzirwa kwechisimba.

Unotanga kurara pabonde ripi? Hapana mhinduro yakajeka uye mifananidzo yakananga munyaya iyi: munhu mumwe nomumwe anokura nenzira dzakasiyana. Mumwe munhu anonzwa kudiwa kwokuita zvepabonde kare makore 16-17, uye mumwe munhu haagoni kunzwa achikwezva kana ava nemakore makumi maviri. Panyaya iyi, ndinoda kudzokorora mubhuku rinozivikanwa zvikuru: "Ndeipi nguva yekuita zvepabonde kunofanira kutanga? Kana iwe uchitotanga mubvunzo uyu, inguva. "

Uye zvakadini nezvemhosva?

Paanoronga kutanga hukama hwepedyo, munhu anofanira kuyeuka zvinotevera: zvepabonde haisi kungogutsikana nezvimwe zvido zvemuviri wako, uye kwete hukama hwakadzika pakati pevanhu vaviri, asiwo mutoro mukuru wevanhu. Kuzvipira kuzvitarisira iwe nemumwe wako. Upenyu hwepabonde ndiko kukwanisa kuzvidzivirira iwe pachako uye mudiwa kubva pamatambudziko ekudzivirira kusingadiwi uye zvirwere. Zvechokwadi, vashomanana vanhu vanofunga nezvenyaya iyi yehupombwe, zvichida, saka mune dzimwe nyika kunezve tsika yokuti musikana anofanira kunge ari mhandara kusvikira usiku hwemuchato. Kunyatsotarisira kwake hakuna kutora musikana wega, asi murume akakodzera.

Kana ukama hwepedyo hwepedyo hwakarongeka, uye mumwe wevashandi (kana maviri) ari pasi pemakore gumi nemasere kusvika 18-18, zvakakosha kufunga kufungidzira kuti vabereki vachaita sei kana apinda muhukuru. Chikonzero chokuti amai nababa vasawana chero chinhu chisingashandise - vabereki vakachenjera zvikuru, uye chakavanzika chose munguva pfupi kana kuti chinotevera chinova pachena.

Zvepabonde - kukwanisa kupa

Uye kubva kune rumwe rutivi, upenyu hwepabonde hahuwanzozivikanwi nevaduku. Isu tose mukati memvura yakadzika ndeyoudyire. Tinosarudza kunakidzwa, pane kungwarira kuti mumwe munhu ari pedyo nesu akanga akanaka. Asi kuita zvepabonde kunosanganisira kubatanidzwa kwevanhu vaviri, mumwe nomumwe wavo akagadzirira kupa zvakanyanya kune mumwe wake. Izvi zvakaoma kwazvo kuita pakutanga pakutanga kweukama hwepedyo, apo vakomana nevasikana vasina ruzivo uye, sechikonzero, havagoni kuvimba zvizere uye kuparara mune mumwe munhu. Asi zvakanyanya kunobva kune mumwe munhu ane ruzivo. Kutarisira uye rudo, anokwanisa kukwanisa kumhandara nemhandara (kana mhandara) kuburikidza nekufungisisa kwepfungwa nemafungiro echiito chekunyadzisa, uye udyire-kusingagumi kutsvaga kukanganisa upenyu hwepedyo.

Unhu hwekutanga hwepabonde hunoramba huripo mukurangarira kwedu. Uye izvi zvinoenderana nerusununguko rwedu rusununguko uye sarudzo yakasarura kana ichange iri mashiripiti, zvisinei zvinorwadza, kutanga kwevanhu vakuru, kurwira mufaro, hukama hwepedyo, kana huchayeukwa nokuzvidemba nekunyangadza, sechiitiko chisingafadzi iwe unoda kukanda kunze kwechimbichimbi nokukurumidza .