Chii kwete kutaura pamusangano wokutanga une shamwari kana nemhosva: 21 Mashoko

Wakamboverenga rookie bhururu, kana chete Chat pamwe nemhosva musingamhanyi-mhanyi pamusoro kofi, mashoko ako kuti zvirambe zviri shamwari dzake. Kunyange kana rokuti akawira pamiromo yako mukusaziva, zvinogona kukanganisa mukurumbira wako mundoparadza kuororwa. Pano mutsara kuti haufaniri kutaura kana uchawana kuzivana vari nyanzvi ezvinhu.

"Ndinovenga ichi kambani, uye wangu webasa - mumwe chigure"

Hapana kupfuura kuparadza kuororwa chinhu kwakanaka mugove negativity. Kunyange kana uri aiming kuisa mumwe munhu chokwadi, achiratidza zvose pamusoro boka rako, ziva kuti pane zvimwe zviri undere, nokuti iyo vaisabvumirwa kufamba kana musangano. Social uye bhizimusi mhoteredzo zvinoda iwe kuratidza zvavanokwanisa unhu. Siya nyaya vanhu uyo une ukama kuvimba.

"Sei zvikuru here mari?"

Mibvunzo pamusoro mari yomuropa vanoonekwa pachedu, saka havana isingashandi apo musangano. Mubvunzo pamusoro mubayiro tsika uye haana mukanwa, uye kana uri anonakidza kuenzanisa muhoro, zvinogona kuitwa kuburikidza private channel kana unyanzvi nzvimbo.

"Ndine urombo kuti vavhiringe"

Kana usingade kuomerera mutsva nemibvunzo, nei iwe kuzviita? Nokuti Nhanganyaya mutsara rakawanda zvakakodzera kushandisa akasiyana template: "? Unogona kuwana akasununguka miniti"

"Munofungei pamusoro mutungamiri wedu?"

Kazhinji nokuzvibata pamusangano wokutanga regai kutaura zvematongerwo enyika. Kunyange kana iwe hazviwirirani hurumende pari, kuvimba kugadzikana nokuda zvikuru vakadzidziswa vanhu.

"Unotenda muna Mwari?"

Heino imwe yakawanda pachena kunorambidzwa. Zvisinei, vamwe vanhu vanogona panguva kumuzikamwi kuenda kure kuti vanofarira muzvitendero zviri interlocutors.

"Ini ndiri munhu pabonde vashoma"

dzidziso Your rinongoshandisirwa iwe nemumwe wako. Nevamwe uye vatengi havafaniri nokuvhiringidza kukwira mashoko uropi kuti hazviratidzi wako nemazvo unhu uye zvayakawana.

"Kana uine mwana?"

Kana ukaona wandaiziva pamuviri, regai kubvunza mibvunzo yake nezvenguva makurukuriro. Uyezve, kungava kuti woita dumbu rake chiratidzo kukurumidza kuva chirwere. Iwe isa shamwari iri netsa chinzvimbo.

"Hazvibviri"

Paunokurukura chero dambudziko, vanoedza kudzivisa categorical mashoko. Iva nehanya uye kupa dzimwe mhinduro.

"Wakambonzwa here ...?"

Unogona kukanganwa pamusoro mukurumbira wakanaka mumabhizimisi zvakatipoteredza, kana kuvazikamwi venyu achabatsirwa kupararira makuhwa nerunyerekupe. Ziva kuti anotaridzika akaita guhwa mumaziso vamwe kunyange kupfuura vanhu, izvo anotaura. Kufembera nguva yokutanga, pamusoro pake ichakurukurwa kana bhururu wako mutsva kubvunzurudza wacho wezvakashata yenyu?

"Ndinofarira mapfekero ako"

Mumabhizimisi ezvinhu vari kuzviwanira vataure munhu chitarisiko kana Mapfekero ake. Teverai pachiremera murayiro kumabasa.

"Ini kurambana"

Kana muine matambudziko muupenyu hwako pachako, usaedza kugoverana nhamo yavo wandaiziva itsva. Chero muchirumbidza nematambudziko renzvimbo mune nyanzvi ezvinhu.

"Ini ndinofunga ..."

Kana iwe tora kumbomira kufungisisa, ichi zvinoreva kuti hamusi chokwadi panzvimbo dzavo pokuoma. Ndiani anoda kuti kubata munhu akadaro?

"Ndaneta chaizvo"

Dzokushanda haagamuchiri tuzvikonzero. basa rakakwana Chokutanga, muzorore uchava nguva pamusoro kwevhiki.

"Ndaifungidzira iwe akasiyana"

Rega kutanga kukurukura mwoyo kana kuvhiringidzika. nemhosva yako haazivi here waiva tarisiro yake yakakwirira.

"In upenyu, muri nani zvikuru"

Uyewo, regai runyerekupe kuti nemhosva kana bhururu pane pakutanga akafunga kurwara kwake. Ungangove, kwakacherechedzwa kuti anzwe akasununguka.

"Makore mangani?"

Kufarira makore interlocutor ibenzi uye kukodzera, kunyanya kana ari akanaka mudzimai.

"Budira"

Kusimbisa nemaune kutendeseka kwako kunogona kutamba nemi kwakaipa chinosekesa. Akakupoteredzai kukubata pamwe kufungira zvisizvo, kutarisira tsvina minimini.

"Unofanira kunge vakanzwa ini kwete zvinhu zvakanakisa ... ndinokuudzai kuti hazvina chokwadi"

Hanya norunyerekupe akatambanudza vakakupoteredza godo navo. Uyezve, kana kuziva ane ruzivo uchatanga vanoisa pfungwa dzavo wake munhu, akaita sokuti iwe vakafunga pachako anokosha munhu muhofisi.

"Ko ndiwe unondiitira nyasha?"

Mumwe maminitsi 10 apfuura hauna kuziva murume uyu, asi angatsunga kumubvunza kuti nyasha. How kunzwisisa izvi?

"Ini ... I ... I ..."

Dzivisa egocentric mashoko chero kukurukurirana, kunyange kana zviri kurongwa ushamwari hunhu. Rangarirai kuti I - tsamba wokupedzisira ari arufabheti. Vanhu havadi kana munhu ari kutaura kwavari kuedza "anodhonzera jira pamusoro pachake," kunyanya kana totaura musangano wokutanga chaizvo. Asi, edza rimwe basa yokuteerera tsika kana zvinoratidza kuti iwe hanya nematambudziko akaunganidzwa pamusoro bhizimisi rako.

"Oh, sei ndinofarira!"

Pamwe iwe uchida kuratidza zvose zvavo chido uye zvakanaka. Zvisinei, irrepressible kushingaira kwakadaro kunotungamirira kune vanetsane. The chakavanzika yokubudirira mutsva vaaishanda navo uye vatengi? Just gara pachako.