Isu tose tawana chokwadi chokuti munzanga yevanhu vakasiyana isu tinonzwa uye tinozvibata nenzira dzakasiyana zvakasiyana. Mumwe munhu kubva pamashoko okutanga anoita kuti tive netariro netariro, kukurukurirana naye kunounza kuzvivimba, kunofadza uye kunofadza. Uye mumwe munhu, pane zvinopesana, anoita kuti ave nechido chokutaura zvakanaka nokukurumidza nekukwanisa uye kusamboona zvakare. Chii chinonzi charisma? Ichi chipo chakanaka kana unyanzvi? Iwe unogona kudzidza kunakidza vanhu here?
Nyanzvi dzepfungwa dzeAmerica dzinodavira kuti zvose zvinopiwa nekuita. Asi yeuka kupenya, asi panguva imwechete, kutonhora kunotyisa kwevaAmerica. Kuve une tariro kune vanhu vose, kuvanza matambudziko ako ose uye zvakaitika kwauri hazvirevi kukukwezva vanhu. Charm is magnet. Ndiine munhu ane unhu uhwu, ndinoda kukurukura zvakare uye zvakare. Chii chakavanzika? Iyo nzvimbo huru, iyo inofadza munhu, ndiko kuvapo kwekunzwira tsitsi. Uku ndiko kukwanisa "kunzwa" munzvimbo ye interlocutor. Kukwanisa kunyatsomunzwira tsitsi uye kumurega anzwisise izvi. Chimiro, pane kudaro, munhu ane innate. Mushure mezvose, haukwanise kunzwira tsitsi. Iwe haungadzidze sei kuva akanaka-natured. Iwe unogona, chokwadi, unodzidza nzira dzakasiyana dzekushandisa vanhu, kuzvidzora uye mararamiro avo, maziso echiso, zviratidzo. Asi pfungwa yakadzama yeukama hwepedyo nemumwe munhu haigoni kukura mavari kana mune vamwe. Chii chinotikwezva muvanhu vanoyemura? Chokutanga pane zvose, ivo vari kwatiri. Inonzwa, inonzwa "ganda". Izvi hazvikwanisi kutambidzwa, nokuti kuverenga mukati kunowanzoonekwa pazinga risingazivikanwi. Nokudaro, charisma ndeyekutanga kwekutendeseka. Asi kwete kunyunyisa, kwete utsinye. Munhu ane chipo chekufadza vamwe, anoziva nzira yokuteerera. Uye anofanirawo kunyatsonzwa manhando nemhando dzehupenyu hune hutano uye anonzwisisa zvakanyanya mamiriro acho ezvinhu.
Kubva kune vanhu vanoyemura vanoita mvura inodziya uye kufarira. Izvi zvinoreva kuti munhu akadaro haagoni kuzvikudza kana kuzvikudza. Iye, semurairo, ane kuzvikudza kwakakwana. Ari kunyatsoteerera, asi haasati aita. Rudo rwechikadzi rwakasununguka zvizere nehutano hwakanaka "hwakanaka". Isu tose takasangana nevasikana nevechidiki avo vakanga vasina kusiyana pakuratidzika kwakanaka kana mitambo yemitambo. Asi ruzivo rwavo rwunoita kuti vawedzere kunakidza kudarika kunaka kwechando kwevakadzi vanodada kana kukudzwa kukuru kwevatendi.
Nokudaro, chido ndicho unhu hweunhu, unhu. Uku ndiko kukwanisa kuva nevanhu pamwe newe, pasina kuedza. Zvechokwadi, chido ichi chinonyanya kukoshesa munhengo ipi zvayo. Munhu akadaro, sekutonga, haana vavengi. Zvichida nokuti kuburikidza nekudziya kwake uye rufaro iye anovadzivisa. Uyu unhu hunokosha zvikuru mumabasa ose ane chokuita nekukurukurirana. Mumwe mutengesi anotengesa kana mutariri wezvirevera achakwanisa kukunda kuda kwekambani uye kukunda iyo nokukurumidza zvikuru uye zvakasununguka. Muzvipatara nemakiriniki kuvanachiremba uye vanamukoti, avo vane unhu uhwu, varwere vanorapwa nekutya kukuru. Mudzidzisi kana mudzidzisi anofadza anodikamwa nevadzidzi vake vose. Uye kunyange zvazvo iwe usingagoni kudzidza dzimba iyi, unogona kuedza kukudziridza iwe pachako unhu hwakadai sokunzwirana tsitsi, kukwanisa kunzwira tsitsi uye kunzwirana tsitsi. Nokuti pose patinenge tichishanda, zvisinei nokuti tinoitei, kutaura zvakanaka nevanhu kunogara kuchiita kuti tibatsirwe chete.