Compliments vakomana. Zvinorevei kuti munhu ukarumbidza

Dambudziko isina nzira yokuwana pfungwa aida mukomana - nounyanzvi kutaura pachavo, kukanganisa mibvunzo kuti iye ane hanya. Kuteerera zvikuru pamusoro dhigirii ayo, unogona kuzadzisa nyore kuonekwa uye mafungiro ushamwari.

Mune rimwe aphorisms pakati Dale Carnegie (munyori akakurumbira bhuku pamusoro achifurira vanhu) rinoti munhu wose, pasinei zvemagariro ake chinzvimbo uye basa, sezvinoita vanhu vanoyemura naye.

Vamiririri simba hafu revanhu vari kuvapowo. Vanenge vanhu vose vari kubatwa kumeso. Munhu, nenzira, kupfuura vasikana (vari vakapambwa pamwe compliments), kunyange kubvuma izvozvo. Naizvozvo, kushandisa ichi nzira kuti kubhadhara compliments kune vakomana kutengeka nyore, chero musikana anogona nyore kukunda pamusoro mukomana aifarira naye.

Chimwe mumwe aphorisms Carnegie inoti pesva chero chaiyo munhu - zvinoreva kuti vamuudze zvaanofunga nezvake. Hazvibviri kuwana munhu achifunga zvakaipa pamusoro pachavo nokukudzwa kwavo, izvo zvinogona kunge kana kwete.

Asi kumeso kumeso zvakafanana. Compliments vakomana havafaniri kutaura pamusoro template, zvimwe kunze vamwe vomureza kana nomutsa uchida kuona zvimwe kuchinja chitarisiko. Somuenzaniso, kuti munhu kana kugerwa akanaka, iye anotarira zvakanaka nhasi. Chero munhu nokurumbidzwa uyo akati, vari iiswe kuyeuka. Uye, chokwadi, vakomana compliments vanofanira kuva akakodzera, yepakutanga, uye kwete uzviise imwe netsa chinzvimbo. Ngatikurukurei zvimwe mashoko.

Compliments varume havasi akasiyana zvikuru kubva compliments vasikana. Pakutanga, zvingaita sokuti, vechiduku havana kudaro fixated pamusoro chitarisiko chavo akanaka hafu kwavamwe asi hazvina kudaro. Kana munhu kuchinja mufananidzo kana akapfeka zvishoma zvakasiyana, kunyange pamusoro subconscious sandara, anoda kuti kuonekwa uye kurumbidzwa, achipa anokutenda. Iva nechokwadi kuti kumuudza nezvazvo - uye uchaona kuti achagutswa uye vimbiso wako chokwadi kuti kuonekwa.

Kana iwe nhonga anokutenda kuti mukomana, ipapo funga unhu hwake. Mashoko ako anofanira echokwadi, nokuti nhema nguva dzose kuonekwa - uye zvinotarisirwa chaizvoizvo kungava zvakashandurwa. Noruyemuro zvechokwadi mucherechedzo Somuenzaniso, unoshamisa vachikanda mupfungwa dzake, pfungwa huru zvinosetsa, rume chitarisiko, akanaka pameso, etc. Chete chikuru chinhu - Usaita nayo.

Zvichikosha kudzidza kuteerera. Zvakare, zvakare, kutendeukira kuna Carnegie. shamwari Best anoziva kunyatsoteerera. Uye anotova. Pamwe hauna ruzivo zvikuru, sezvo ishamwari yako, asi teererai zvaanotaura, uye kunyange kana asina kutaura shoko, achiri zvikuru anoda kusangana uye nditaure nemi. Yakanga zvinogoneka nokupinza kufunga hadzi atirari - compliments nokuti Guy sechinhu inokosha danho kukunyengedza aifarira jaya.

Compliments kufarira mukomana Chokwadi, sendiri rakapfava asi pane chiyero pakutaura uye kuratidzwa rudo! Usarega kuyemura chaunofarira - ake pfungwa, zviito, anoshamisa, zvinoyevedza mutumbi wayo nevamwe dhigirii. Kazhinji kutaura mashoko compliments kufarira mukomana, uye kuchawedzera ake nokuzviremekedza - acharamba kutsvaka kuenda zvakanaka, munyoro, ane hanya, rudo, akanaka, vasina chavanopomerwa uye apo kumuteerera uye chivimbo. Kuti musikana kuzviita nyore, nokuti munhu waunoda haisi zvinokanganiswa uye zvemashoko chete uye ndiwo refu-akagamuchira axiom rudo.

Angatsunga, musikana akanaka, uye kurangarira kuti iwe nguva dzose sarudza, zvinopesana kuti akasarudzwa nevanhu.