Kunyengerwa kutarisira - Kushungurudzika

"Amakuru vangu vakati:" Ndinoda kutenga imba, asi ini handina mukana. Ndine mukana wokutenga mbudzi, asi ini handina chido. " Saka ngatinwe kuti tive nechokwadi chokuti zvido zvedu nguva dzose zvinowirirana nekwanisi hwedu. " Vose vanoziva here mbiriso kubva mufirimu "Vakapambwa muCaucasian"? Izvi zvinotevera kuti tateguru vake aida kutenga imba, asi akanga asina mukana. Zvinonakidza, chii chaive mugumisiro wekusiyana pakati pechishuvo uye unogona? Tinoenda kune yakapfuura uye tinoona. Mukuru-tateguru ari kutarisana, ari mukusagadzikana, kunetseka mupfungwa, kuputsira mudzimai wake nevana, mumaziso ekuzvidya mwoyo, kuora mwoyo, kuora mwoyo uye kunyange kuora mwoyo. Kuonekwa kwake kwakanyanyisa kunotaura nezvekusunungura kubva kune dzimwe nyika. Haasi pano uye ikozvino, asi mune imwe nyika inonyengera apo kurota kwake kweimba yakamirira kwenguva yakareba kwazadziswa. "Chinetso chii, baba vangu?" - tinokumbira, uye anoti mumashoko aVodian: "O, upenyu hwangu tini rinogona! Uyai, mumuregei mumupata! Ndiri kurarama semakaro. " - "Sei zvakadaro? Upenyu husina hupenyu kwete hupenyu here? "-" Pasina musha, hupenyu hwangu hunoodza mwoyo. Mukufa kwangu, ndinokukumbira kuti upe mhosva hupenyu hwangu. Imba haisi yakaipa sezvaunofunga. Zvechokwadi, zvinhu zvose zvakanyanya kuipa! Upenyu hwangu hwose hwakanga huri kudzokorora kwekambani inonzi "House." Handisi kuzonzwa konsti zvakare. " "Sekuru, musanetseka sezvizvi," tinotaura nokubatana uye tinonzwa zvakare: "Zvino, pedal, kusvikira wandipa iyo." Sekuru anouya kubva mubhenji uye anotityisidzira netsvimbo. Kubva kwaari kunounza utsinye, sekubva kumhumbwa yakakuvadzwa. Tinotarisa tateguru-vakuru nehurumende kuti akazviisa muchinzvimbo chisingabatsiri nemafungiro ake . Haakwanisi kuzvisiyanisa nyore nyore nepfungwa yekuve neimba. Kwaari, imba yacho inokosha zvikuru, uye haagoni kukanganwa fiasco yechirongwa chake. Mukuwedzera, haane chido chekubuda mumamiriro acho ezvinhu, uye haazive nzira yekuwana nzira yekubuda nayo.

Mushure mekunyora kwakadaro kwekuvhiringidzika, ndinofunga, chirevo chazvo chakava pachena. Kushungurudzika - (kubva kuLatin frustratio - "kunyengedza", "kusakwanisa", "kutarisira pasina", "kushungurudzwa kwezvinangwa") nderimwe pfungwa dzisina kunaka mupfungwa, zvichikonzerwa nokusakwanisa kugutsa zvimwe zvido zvayo. Kana zvirongwa zvedu zvichishaya, apo zvipingamupinyi zvisingakwanisiki zvinomuka munzira inoenda kune chinangwa, uye isu takanyatsokurudzirwa kuti tibudirire chinangwa, pane mamiriro ekugumburwa. Mune mamwe mazwi, kushungurudzika apo apo zvishuvo zvedu hazvina kufanana nezvatinokwanisa. Kune mamiriro ekudzvinyirira kudzvinyirira, kushungurudzika, kutsamwa, kuzvidya mwoyo, kutsamwa, manzwiro ekuora mwoyo uye kuora mwoyo.

Nokuti kushungurudzika hakusi kungogutsikana chete, asi kusagutsikana zvakanyanya. Somuenzaniso, munhu aisakwanisa kuita masikati, zvaive zvakarongwa mangwanani kana kuti asina nguva yekudya kwemasikati. Kushungurudzika kunoitika apo chiyero chekusagutsikana hachikwanisiki kumunhu. Pandinoshamwaridzana neni mumakore ekuma1980 mwanakomana haana kuda kupinda muchikoro sezvo asina kuda kushanda muuto. Chii chaityiwa, chakaitika-chakakundikana pamisheni. Ndinoyeuka isu takatarisa nyaya dzakanzi "Nguva dzeChirangaridzo zveChitsuwa", uye akaenda kunoshamba uye akazvisungirira. Zvakaoma kutenda, asi chikonzero chechiito ichi chinotyisa ndicho kukosha kwaakaisa kupinda muchikoro. Zvinonzwisisika, izvi zvinogona kungoitwa nomunhu asingatsvaki mu "hondo dzehupenyu", asingafungi zvepfungwa, anonyanya kunakidza, neasina kusimba unhu hwakasimba. Vabereki havana kugadzirira mwanakomana wavo nekuda kwekutambudzika kwehupenyu uye nekukwanisa kukunda matambudziko. Pamusoro peiyo, murume uyu angave ane "Handidi" yakaoma. Munhu anonyatsoziva kuti anomuda haazokwira mumhino.

Kana takavimbisa mwana kuti atenge chikoyi chaaida chaizvo, uye akanyengerwa, iye achangodaro aite nekutsamwa, kutsamwa uye zvimwe zvakaipa. Vanhu vazhinji, vari mumamiriro ezvinhu ekuvhiringidzika, vanoita kumamiriro ezvinhu sevana. Kana mamiriro acho asina kugadziriswa, ruzivo rwechipiri runouya-kubva kubva kune hutsinye hwechokwadi uye nyika isina kururama kuva munyika yezviroto uye mafungiro. Munhu akaora mwoyo anoenda mukudzivirira ari bofu kubva kune imwe nyika kana kuzvikuvadza. Vanhu vanopinda mukunwa kana kunwa. Vakadzi vanomhanyira kunotapira kana kutanga kutsiva kumurume wavo.
Murume nemukadzi vari kufamba muimba . Mukadzi wacho akasvinudza meso ake: "Ndinofunga kuti murume wangu ari kunyengera kwandiri. Mufambi anogomera achiti: "Ndinofungawo mudzimai wangu - Uye ngavatsive pavari?" Vatsiva. Murume uyu anoedza kurara. Shamwari: "Ndaizotsiva uye kutsiva panzvimbo yako !!!" Pashure pokutsiva, vanowanzoenda mukusava nehanya uye kuora mwoyo ("Ndichafa, iwe uchaziva!"). Vakadzi vakawanda vane chido chinopisa chokutenga. Sekotiroti yekusimudza mafungiro, zvipfeko kana zvipfeko zvinotengwa, izvo mukadzi asingadi.

Muenzaniso wekutanga wekushungurudzika ndekuda kwevanhu vehurumende kuti vakurire Moscow. Pamba, ndiye aiva munhu wokutanga mumusha, uye, achisvika kuMoscow, anoona kuti mabata akadaro ari mumugwagwa inenge ine gumi nemaviri. Akanga akajairira kuziva nzvimbo yake yakakwirira sechinhu chechisikigo uye chaicho. Ichokwadi chakaoma chinoparadza zvose zvarongwa zvake. Kuzviremekedza kunowira pasi pebhokisi rakaputika. Upenyu hunoudza mukoti kuti abudirire: "Yeuka, nzvimbo yako iri parachutti!" Murume wacho akaodzwa mwoyo uye anowira mumatare akagamuchira kuora mwoyo.

Chinangwa chekuvhiringidzika ndechekuratidza kusawirirana. "Ndiregei ndoga, nokuti ndiri kunyunyuta uye kusina maturo," anodaro kushungurudzika. Panguva imwe chete, vamwe vane mhosva. Vanhu vane manzwiro vanowira mukugumburwa kwekuvhiringidzika zvinonyatsotevera kutevera chinangwa chavo. Sezvo kuenzanisa kwechinangwa chake kune zvakakosha zvikuru, kune simba rakawandisa rinokwanisa. Chinangwa chemunhu chinoshanduka kuva muenzaniso wakanaka wekufunga. Mauto akaenzana anobva atanga kushanda, achiendesa kune imwe nzvimbo yekuora mwoyo. Munhu "anoda kuputsa, kupwanya uye kubvarura zvidimbu." Anotungamirirwa nemanzwiro asina kunaka ekutsamwa uye kutsamwa kushaya simba uye kuora mwoyo.

Kushungurudzika chidzidzo chakakomba chekuenzanisa simba. Sezviri pachena, munhu wacho haana kudzidza zvidzidzo zvekare zvakarongedza kuongorora kukosha kwake uye kukosha kwezvaanoda uye zvido zvake. Zvidzidzo zvehupenyu zvinotevera, sekutonga, pakuwedzera. Chidzidzo chega chega chinotevera chakaoma kudarika chekutanga. Mamiriro ekugumburwa, zvichibva pakuoma kwawo, anogona kuverengwa seimwe yezvidzidzo zvakakosha zvemasimba ekubatanidza ezvose. Dzimwe nguva kushungurudzika kunopera nguva, apo nekutarisira kunonyengera uye kutarisira kusina maturo hazvibviri kurarama kwemwedzi nemakore.

Izvo zvinokonzera, asi izvo zvinokonzera kushungurudzika zvinogona kuva kupemberera kweNyika Idzva, iyo inobatanidza nekutarisira kwechishamiso. Kufadza "mutongi wegore" yakafukidzwa nematafura echichi, zvipo zviri kugadzirwa. Kubvira Gore Idzva tarisira hupenyu hutsva uye mufaro mutsva, asi tora hangover ine nzara mushure mekudhakwa kwenguva refu. Somugumisiro, kushungurudzika kwakakwana nenzira yekuora mwoyo uye kuora mwoyo.

Kukunda kushungurudzika kunogadziriswa nokubvisa kukosha kwakanyanya kwechikonzero ichi chakaita kuti chiitiko ichi chivepo. Nokuda kweizvi, kuzvidzora, kuzvidzora uye kuzvidzora zvinoshandiswa. Mumitambo, somuenzaniso, mavara mana emagariro ekuzviisa maitiro anowanzoshandiswa: mavogogiti ekudzidzira, mupfungwa-kudzidzisa kudzidzisa, psychomys- chic uye ideomotor kudzidziswa.

Sezvaunoziva, zviri nani kubvisa chinokonzera kupfuura kupikisa kuongorora. Kushungurudzika kunoparadza zvinangwa, kunodzivisa unhu, dzimwe nguva nekusasa munhu kunze kwehupenyu hwehupenyu. Vabereki, vachiziva migumisiro yakaoma yekushungurudzika, vanomanikidzwa kuunza mwana akagadzirirwa zvakanaka muupenyu. Anofanirwa kunzwisisa zvakajeka kuti hupenyu huri musikisi umo michina yakasiyana-siyana ichaedza kuedza kunzwisisa kwake kukosha uye edza kuvakanda muatena. Mwana wacho anofanira kudzidza zvakanaka kuti nzvimbo yake iri muimba, uye kwete munhandare yemasikisi ehupenyu. Anofanira kunyatsonzwisisa izvo zvinonyanya kukosha muupenyu, uye chii chisina maturo, tinsel, poni uye mutambo we "kukurumidza". Munhu muduku anofanira kuziva kuti zvinhu zvose zviri muhupenyu huno hazvigoni kudzorwa naye. Munhu mumwe nomumwe ane nzvimbo yake yeukwanisi, iyo iyo haisi yezvakawedzerwa, asi inobatanidzwa. Ava ndivo vabereki, mudzimai, vana, shamwari dzepedyo, vashandi pamwe chete pabasa. Hapana chikonzero chekukomberedza nekuda kwekudengenyeka kwenyika muTurkey kana tsunami muIndonesia. Kana vasina kukwanisa kusvika kune vavariro yavo, hazvingavi kuuraya. Dzidzisa mwana wako kuti aone kuti mufaro ndiwo mugwagwa unoenda kune chinangwa, kwete chinangwa pachako. Udza mwana uyu mufananidzo wakanaka.

Iyo imbwa, ichidzingirira muswe wayo, yakaneta, yakamisa kutambudzwa uye yakavata pasi kuti izorore, yakakomberedzwa. Muchigaro ichi, asingatarisiri akawana muswe pasi pemhino dzake uye aine nzara akabata mazino ake, asi pakarepo akarega kuenda, achiputika nemarwadzo. "Tinofanira kugumisa," akadaro akazviudza, "kuti kutevera kunotapira kudarika nhaka."