Taurirana kugona kunounza kuziva uye kubudirira: Dzidza kuti ...

Mumazuva ano nyika dzinoverengeka ounyanzvi hwokugadzira dzinoturwa zvachose vamwe, asi kwete nguva dzose zvinodiwa zvakajeka, ramakagadzwa pakutanga zvagara raireva "kukurukura kugona". Kunyanya kana totaura mabasa akadai mukuru sezvo kukwezva uye ukaramba vatengi, uye mamwe marudzi kwokukurukurirana navo.

Zvaizoratidza sokuti zviri kujeka pamutsara uyu? Taurirana - saka fara nevamwe. kugona kwevanhu mune iyi ichaongororwa sokukwanisa kumisa kuonana, kutumira uye kugamuchira mashoko kubva mumwe munhu. Pakupfuura iri nhaurirano kunofanira zvakabatsirawo zvose mushandi uye hwake yeGmail.END_STRONG (uye saka nokuti kambani yose).

Zvisinei, pfungwa kukurukura kugona hausi Bottleneck. Vanotsvakurudza sezvo pakudzidza matambudziko munyaya zhinji zvinhu rokuti:

• kushaya kutaurirana zvipingamupinyi (kusanganisira mashoko, somuenzaniso, chokundandama, National mutauro zvinhu, asi specificity yokukurukurirana nenyanzvi; mupfungwa zvipingamupinyi);
• rudzi "akariposhera", inoumbwa nemhaka denderedzwa vokukurukura netsika zvinhu (vanachiremba uye varairidzi vari zano kutaura imwe nemhosva "nomutauro wake");
• Munhu maitiro kuti hazvigoni kunzi kune zvipingamupinyi, asi dzimwe nguva havana kusika chipingamupinyi yokukurukura (somuenzaniso, zvakasiyana kukurumidza kutaura chokuita peculiarities ose nevakwegura, unhu).

Taurirana kugona ndeimwe chinokosha - nzira. Kunyengetedzana, kukurukurirana zvisina kurongwa ne "vanhu zvakanaka", zvakakosha nguva dzose yeuka zvinangwa zvako uye kuvaka chirongwa nhaurirano maererano navo, kuti vave kukwanisa kududzira mamiriro ezvinhu uye kuchinja kuti zvakavanakira. Zvikasadaro, nguva inopedzerwa ichava chikonzero. Chokwadi, kukurukurirana zvakanaka ( "tya") anogara zvinobvira. Tinoswedera muverengi afunge kuti Council rinotarisirwa mabasa ounyanzvi (asiwo muupenyu yakadaro unyanzvi kudiwa kakawanda kupfuura ungafunga).

Kuti akwanise mukukurukurirana vanhu siyana (uye vatengi havasi nguva dzose zvakafanana nyanzvi boka munzanga), unofanira:

• vane kunzwisisa kukurukura kwacho, kuumba unyanzvi nepfungwa (somuenzaniso, kuziva zvipingamupinyi uye kuderedza kukanganisa kwavo ezvinhu kukurukurirana);
• kuziva enyika akanaka, kuti tizive zvinhu tichitarisa sayenzi dzakasiyana-siyana (mutemo, utariri - zvichienderana chii ounyanzvi hwokugadzira kuvanhu iwe kukurukura kazhinji), kuziva national peculiarities kutaura (kunyanya kana iwe kukurira vagari dzimwe nyika);
• kuziva kwavo zvinhu uye kuderedza dzavo inokanganisa pamusoro interlocutor.

Taurirana kukwanisa munhu hwakavakirwa upenyu ruzivo, vawana unyanzvi. Asi zvinokwanisika kururamiswa nokuda mafungiro kudzidzira. Chaizvo zviri zvikuru kushandiswa zvirongwa neunyanzvi chaiwo nokuti kazhinji vasangana basa nemazvo mumamiriro ezvinhu zvinouraya, "okutengesa kurovedza", "kukurukurirana zvipingamupinyi", "Kudzidzisa pamusoro nhaurirano" (mu chaiwo nyanzvi basa), "Kutaura kutaura nemhosva "(muhari mudane musangano pachake)," isina mhinduro nzira "," The hwokunyengetedza. " Nokudaro, mufashoni "kurovedza" vashandi, mamaneja kudiwa dzose kuvandudza, kukura nenyanzvi.

Main chinobatsira unyanzvi, yakaitirwa kudzidzisa nomurovedzi pakukurukurirana kudzidzisa - kukwanisa kuchinja mumwe munhu: mutaure akariposhera, uye kuti iye, kukopa mamiriro, kukurukurirana Style, kuchinja matauriro mwero (nechepazasi kana rikurumidze), kurwa kana kuti iti chechetere ematongerwo. Uye kana zvimwe mabhora zvoupenyu "kuchinja" nevamwe vanhu hakunganzi nzira yakanaka maitiro (neimwe inofanira kuva yayo "Musimboti"!), The kukurukura kugona pasina harigoni kuita.

Saka, kana izwi iri yaora kupinda zvinoriumba, dzakapendwa anodiwa ruzivo uye unyanzvi, zviri pachena, kunofanira kukudziridzwa mberi kuitira kuti kubudirira kana kunzwisisa nhungamiro umo mumwe. Taurirana kugona haina kuumbwa kurara, unofanira kuedza kuti, nekuti akanga iye ndiani inobudisa unodikanwa zvinangwa.