Tsanangudzo yerudo kumunhu: uye nekupikisana

Rudo ... Ndedzipi manzwiro uye manzwiro anotakura shoko iri ... Nguva imwe neimwe inoshandiswa panyika, yechipiri yese rudo. Kuna mai vangu, baba, vana, sekuru naambuya, zuva, gungwa, uye zvechokwadi, nyika yose. Zvisinei, rudo rukuru runokurudzirwa uye runopa mufaro, zvakanyanya zvinorwadza. Vakawanda vanotambura nokuti havagoni kuudza avo vakasarudzwa pamusoro pemanzwiro avo. Uye, nhamo, kazhinji kacho ava vasikana.

Tsanangudzo yerudo kumurume inonzi inenge iri pasi pechiremerera chedu. Kutaura zvazviri, mushure mokunge nyaya dzakawanda dzakasuruvara dzanzwa, dzimwe nguva tinonyara kubvuma manzwiro edu kune vanodiwa. Zvisinei, ndizvo zvakadaro? Pashure pezvose, vanhu, varume nevakadzi, vakasiyana. Chinhu chose chinoenderana nehupenyu uye unhu hwemusanangurwa wako. Chii chaunofanira kuita kana iwe ukawa murudo uye usingazivi, unodzorerazve?

Kutanga, ngatione izvi. Kana iwe usingazivi munhu wacho, iwe wakamuona ari mumugwagwa kazhinji uye iwe wakada maitiro ake, zvino tsanangudzo yerudo kune munhu asingazivi iwe zvachose inoita sechinyadzisa, handizvo here? Muchiitiko ichi, musikana wacho pachake anosika chimiro chomunhu waanoda, anomupa unhu hwaanoda kuona muhupenyu hwomumwe wake, hunofungidzira. Izvi zvinowanzoitika nevechiri kuyaruka vanogadzira chifananidzo chavo uye vanomuteerera. Asi chaizvoizvo, chifananidzo ichi ndiye munhu akafanana nevamwe vose.

Zvakanaka, kana kutsanangurwa kworudo kuchigadzirirwa shamwari, saka hazvizove zvakaoma kuwana kune shamwari dzake kana achidzokorora kana kwete. Kana mhinduro yacho isina kunaka, saka usabvuma kune ani zvake murudo. Edza kukwevera kufunga kwechiroto chako, chiita kuti chinakidze iwe. Tsvaga zvaanenge akapindwa muropa nazvo, ita zvakafanana. Zvichida iwe unofarira unoda mabhuku nemumwe munyori, zvino verengavere uye ujekese ruzivo rwako naye. Ichokwadi zvichakusimudzira mumaziso ake. Zvakanaka, kana iwe uri kutambura zvakadai kuti iwe haugone kumirira nekukwezva, taurira pamusoro pemanzwiro ako. Zvinogona kunge zviri nyore kwauri, asi iva nechokwadi chekare kuti wako akasarudzwa haazoseki pamvumo yako uye haakugumburi iwe.

Kunyangwe zvisingabatsiri kuviga rudo kune mumwe munhu, zvisinei, tsanangudzo yerudo kumurume idanho rakakomba, uye munhu anofanira kunzwisisa kana achizokoshesa. Dzimwe nguva zviri nani kuti ugare wakanyarara kupfuura kutaura chokwadi uye uchinzwira tsitsi upenyu hwako hwose. Nditendei, kana mumiririri wevarume anokonzera manzwiro kune mumwe munhu, iye zvino zvirokwazvo achatora danho rokutanga kuenda naro. Unyanzvi hwevakadzi hunofanira kuratidzwa mune imwe. Zvakakosha kuti zvive zvisina kukodzera kwaari - shamwari yepedyo, shamwari, nezvimwewo. Izvi ndezvokutanga. Uye zvishoma nezvishoma edza kukunda mwoyo wake.

Yeuka kuti vakomana vacho vanovaka sei tsanangudzo yerudo kumusikana. Maruva, zvinyoro zviduku, mashizha. Zvisinei, kana mwoyo wemukadzi uyu usingatauri kwaari, zvino zvose izvi hazvina maturo here? Ndizvo zvakafanana nevanhu. Kana iye asingakudi, iwe haungatomanikidzirwa nesimba. Kunyange zvazvo chete kubva kune rumwe rutivi zvinoratidzika kuti zviri nyore kuti vabvume manzwiro avo kupfuura kwatiri.

Kutaura zvazviri, vanorondedzera kwenguva yakareba tsanangudzo yorudo kumusikana, vanobvunzurana neshamwari, vasikana uye vanomhanya kunotenga kutsvaga maruva chaiwo kana chipo. Kuramba kwomunhu kuti atye kupfuura chero chinhu chipi zvacho, nokuti kunoderedza kuzvidzora kwavo, asi panguva imwechete, kunzwa chiratidzo cherudo kubva kumusikana, vanoseka, vasinganzwisisi kuti vanomukuvadza zvakadini.

Saka, kana iwe ushingi uye wakasimba wakasarudza kuuya ne tsanangudzo yerudo kumunhu, zvino kumirira mukana wakafanira. Somuenzaniso, zuva revanoda vose. Gadzirira chirairo chekuda, makenduru, ega nzvimbo. Uye usakanganwa nezvemapfekero eshamwari. Zviise iwe pamberi pewakasarudza wako mune imwe mutsva. Kana kana zuva raTatyana riri munzira, tsanangudzo murudo ndicho chinhu chaicho. Munhu wese anopemberera zuva rino, munhu wose anonzwa mafungiro akanaka. Zvimwe iwe uchange uine rombo zvakare. Nhanho yakanaka!