Ushamwari Hwakanaka pakati pevarume Vakasimba Kupfuura Pakati Pevasikana?

Iko mashoko mazhinji akanaka anotaurwa, ndima dzinonyorwa uye nziyo dzinoimbwa pamusoro pehukama hwemurume. Uye chii chaari chaizvo? Kutonga munyaya iyi ndiko kubatsirana pamwe nekusigirwa, asi hutano hwakasimba huri kunyarara, asi hunoshanda. Ushamwari pakati pevarume hunoratidza kuti varume havasi kushandiswa kugweda mhepo nemafungiro uye kushevedzera kusingakoshi. Vose vari nyore, zvakajeka uye, vanofunga, vanonzwisisa. Ushamwari hwemurume inzira yeimwe mitambo yakanyatsobatanidzwa muupenyu hwezuva nezuva. Ukama huri pakati pevakadzi hunoumbwa pane imwe nzira yakasiyana. Kuwirirana pamwe chete kunokosha zvikuru uye kutsigirwa kwepfungwa kunopiwa. Vakadzi vanotenda kuti matambudziko ose anogona kugadziriswa nekukurukurirana neshamwari uye, nokudaro, vachishanda nzira dzokugadzirisa nadzo. Ushamwari hwechikadzi hunonzwisiswa nekunyepedzera, iyo, zvechokwadi, inoratidzirwa.

Ushamwari nehukama hwevakadzi hune maitiro ehukama hwehukama, vanongova nemhando yakasiyana yekutaura. Hazvikwanisi kutaurwa kuti imwe kana imwe yacho yakasimba, iri nani uye yakavimbika.

Ngationei, ndiani shamwari dzakadaro. Chokutanga pane izvi, ava vanhu vanogona kugovana zvakanaka kubudirira kwavo nekukundikana kune mumwe nemumwe. Ushamwari pakati pevarume nevasikana hunobva pakuvimba uye kuvimba kune waunoda. Zvakakosha kugara uchiedza kuita kuti shamwari yako inakidze uye isununguka munharaunda yako. Shamwari dzepedyo haizombomutsoropoti shamwari uye dzichamuchengetedza kubva pakurwiswa, kunyanya kusipo kwake. Kuti vave nehukama hwakanaka, vanhu vanochengetedza, zvakavanzika zvakapiwa kwavari, edza kuva vane mwoyo murefu uye vasingadzidzisani . Ushamwari pakati pevarume hunobva mukuremekedzana nekushivirira. Kunyange, iwe unogonawo kutaura pamusoro pehukama hwevasikana.

Ushamwari nehukadzi hukama hwakazara zvinoreva. Icho hachisi chakasiyana nehuwandu kana chidimbu chekugadzikana. Chinokosha cheukama hunosiyana chete nekuda kwehupenyu hwevamiriri vevane simba uye vasina simba zvepabonde. Saka isu isu vakadzi dzimwe nguva hatinzwisisi kuti haukwanise kutaurirana sei kwemavhiki, uye panguva imwechete inonzi shamwari. Varume vanobata misangano yezuva nezuva nekukurukurirana zvakanyarara. Kwavari, chinhu chikuru ndechokuziva kuti shamwari inogara yakagadzirira kubatsira nekubatsira mumamiriro ezvinhu akaoma. Ushamwari huri pakati pevarume hwakanyarara uye hauna kumbovakirwa pamubatsiro mumwechete kana unyengeri. Varume havazove neshanje nejasi, manicure kana madzimadzi. Ivo vakananga, uye nguva dzose, vanotaura zvavanofunga.

Ushamwari pakati pevarume hunosanganisira mukana wekupa chimwe chinhu kwaari, asi vakadzi vanowanzoda kupira ushamwari nekuda kwemhuri kana basa. Varume vanotsigirana nemabasa, nokuti mazwi avo haana kukosha. Vanowanzosarudza nguva dzose kushamwaridzana. Uye vamiririri vakanaka pane zvepabonde vakagadzirira kuteerera musikana uye vanopa zvakajeka, sezvavanofunga, mazano.

Ushamwari pakati pevarume, sekutonga, hunobva paudiki. Mushure mezvose, kune matambudziko mazhinji muupenyu hwevanhu vakuru. Nguva yekuwana shamwari itsva inonyanya kushaikwa. Kazhinji, madzimai haanzwisisi kukosha kwevarume vavo vanobatana neshamwari. Silly ultimatums "kana ini, kana shamwari" kazhinji haitungamiri kune chero chinhu chakanaka. Rimwe zuva zvinogona kuitika kuti munhu anosarudza ushamwari. Mushure mezvose, vanhu chete ndivo vanokwanisa kumhanyira kune shamwari yavo pambaidzo yekutanga, vasingateereri kukanganisa kwevakadzi nevanasikana. Icho chiri pakati pehupombwe hwakasimba iyo pane maonero kuti hazvisi nyore kuwana shamwari yechokwadi, asi mumwe muvambi mutsva muhupenyu hwepakutanga.

Nokudaro, kusiyanisa ushamwari hwevarume nevakadzi hakusi kwakakwana. Chero mamiriro ezvinhu, zvechokwadi hukama hwechokwadi pakati pevanhu hunovakirwa pausina udyire, kuvimbika, kuzvipira uye kuremekedza zvakadzama. Pasina ivo, hazvibviri kufungidzira ushamwari hurefu, hwakasimba uye hwakavimbika.