Kuteerera nzeve: zvinoreva zvinyorwa uye nhoroondo yezvakabva

Nguva yekunyatsoteerera-ichitadzo here? Muitiko apo iwe unoudzwa nhema. Ndeipi tsanangudzo iwe unogona kupa munhu kukwanisa kutenda zvose zvaanoudzwa. Nokuda kweizvi, mazwi okuti "sungirira nzeve dzako" yakakwana. Izvo zvinoreva zvinyorwa zvinyorwa zvinokurukurwa munyaya ino, uyewo mavambo uye mienzaniso kubva muupenyu hwezuva nezuva, cinematography uye nhoroondo.

Kubva

Haisi chakavanzika chekuti vamwe vakashandura kutaura vakabuda nekuda kwekucherechedza kwevanhu pamararamiro avo ezuva nezuva uye zvisikwa. Semuenzaniso, mazwi okuti "kubvarura kutsamwa" akaonekwa muhurukuro apo munhu akacherechedza zvinoitika pakupisa pamoto. Mushure mezvose, manzwiro matiri, zvakare, mune rimwe dambudziko bundu.

"Svinura nzeve": kukosha kwemashoko ezvidzidzo yakadzika mukufungisisa kwehupenyu hwomunhu. Tateguru wedu akacherechedza kuti mhuka dzinozvibata sei pavanonzwa mutsindo unofadza. Izvo chaizvoizvo "vanosimudza nzeve dzavo," kureva kuti, vanofuratira nzeve dzavo mumanzwiro ezwi kuti vanzwisise zviri nani kana vachifanira kufunganya nezvazvo kana kwete. Iyi inyaya isinganzwisisiki yemashoko inotsanangura "shandisa nzeve dzako." Tinopfuurira kune zvazvinoreva, uyewo mhinduro kumubvunzo wekuti nei kunaka kwezvikara pasina mubvunzo - kuchenjerera munharaunda yevanhu kwakaita kuti pave nemitauro yakawanda yakasiyana-siyana mumatauro ezvinoreva (zvimwe pamusoro peizvi gare gare).

Meaning

Kutaura kwakataurwa kunoratidzwa nomunhu anenge asinganyengeri. Anoudzwa, asi anotenda zvose. Uye kazhinji kuburikidza nokutaura, iye anotsauswa pane chimwe chinhu chinokosha kana kuvanza ruzivo rwakakosha kubva kwaari (sezvazvakanga zvakaita naPinocchio mune imwe nhau yakakurumbira). Iko kutaura kwakanyanyisa kwe "sungirira nzeve dzako." Zvinoreva zvinyorwa zvinoratidzwa kune muverengi. Saka, vagari, rindai uye musanamatira nzeve dzenyu munzvimbo dzisina kuvimbiswa kana dzisina ngozi.

Anoshandiswa pamusana pemashoko. "Svinura nzeve" uye "ramba uchinzwa nzeve"

Chinhu chinoshamisa, asi kungwarira kwemhuka, iyo yakanyatsorondedzerwa mukufamba kwe nzeve, mumutauro wevanhu vane zvose zvakaipa uye zvinoreva zvakanaka. Izwi rinowanikwa mumutsara muchikamu chiduku chinopesana nechirevo. "Svinura nzeve" inoratidzira munhu asingatendi anotenda zvose. Kwaari chero zvaunotaura, zvinhu zvose zvichave zvakakodzera, zvose zvichafananidzwa. Kunyange zvazvo "kuchengeta ziso" kunoratidza munhu anochenjerera, asingabviri. Mune mamwe mazwi, iyo iwe wausingagoni kunyengera. Zvinonakidza, handizvo here? "Svinura nzeve" (zvinorehwa neshoko rechirevo hazvizive zvisinganzwisisiki iye zvino kwatiri) uye "rambai makatarira" vane zvinoreva zvakasiyana, uye vane chinyorwa chimwe chete - kucherechedza mhuka dzesango.

"Ears pane vertex"

Iri kutora mutauro unobhadharawo kubva kumhuka. Kana vakataura kuti munhu ane nzeve pane vertex, zvinoreva kuti nguva dzose anonyanya kuisa pfungwa uye anoziva zviitiko zvose. Izwi iri rinogona kunge rakanaka uye risina kunaka rinomiririra munhu, rinotaura pamusoro pekusarerekera kwake kwekutenderera.

Mumwe munhu angabvunza kuti: "Zvakanaka, zvakadini pano, ndapota ndiudze," sungirira nzeve dzako "(phraseology)." Muverengi, isu tinotenda, achanzwisisa kuti mazwi "nzeve pamitete" pane imwe nzvimbo pakati pe "shandisa nzeve dzako" uye "chengetedza nzeve dzako" Zvisinei, zvakakwana kutambudza muverengi nedzidziso, ngatitangei kune mienzaniso uye tanga neyekupedzisira.

Rwiyo "Vanamai-Vakwegura Vakwegura"

Mariri maiva nemashoko akadaro, chaizvoizvo kurega: "Ambuya, vanasekuru, nzeve pamitete". Pano inzwi rinoshandiswa mumutauro unonzwisisika uye rinosimbisa kuziva kukuru kwevakadzi vekare vanoda kugara pavanopinda nekugeza zvose nemapfupa ose.

Pasinei nekukuvadza kwevakadzi ava vekare nguva dzose, pano mutauriri wekutaura unowanikwa zvakanaka.

Nhoroondo yebhadharo inowedzera

Iye zvino tinotendeukira kumusoro mukuru wehurukuro yedu, kureva musoro unoti "Svinura nzeve" (phraseology).

Fungidzira mamiriro acho ezvinhu: mukuru anoshevedza kwaari, papeti yomushandi. Kukurukurirana kunotanga zvakanaka. Bhizimisi inorumbidza pasi pezvikamu zvayo mumabasa, kukurumidza. Kunyange zvazvo akashevedzwa kuhofisi yemusoro wemufananidzo, haana kuona kukurumidza kwekuzviitira iye pachake, uye haana kufanana nebasa. Uye haana kufunga kuti mukuru wake aiva munhu akanaka kudaro. Mukupedzisa, mukuru anovimbisa pasi pake mari yekuwedzera, uye anosiya anovimbiswa.

Mukuru anosiya hofisi, uye munyori wake anobvunza kuti:
- Zvakanaka, Nikolai Ivanovich, havana kukwanisa kutaura.

"Kwete, Irina Vitalievna, handina kukwanisa."

Ipapo inzwi rinoshanduka. Iko kune zvinyorwa zvesimbi mukati mazvo, uye anoti: "Ndipei kurairirwa kwake, acharindira mushandi wedu pahosi yake mangwana mangwanani."

Maererano naErich Fromm (muGermany-American psychologist), JV inoda kuseka nenzira yakafanana. Stalin. Apo mumwe munhu aita chikanganiso, akadana muhofisi yake aisingadikanwi, akapiwa mubayiro kana kupa bhonasi ndokurega achienda murugare, uye zuva rinotevera "mhete yakasviba" yakauya kune yekare yepamutemo ndokuenda naye kune imwe nzvimbo isingazivikanwi.

Mushandi wedu wekufungidzira uye vashandi veStalin vaishanda zvakafanana ne "kusungira nzeve" (phraseology), asi zvakange zvakafanira kuva wakangwarira uye "ramba uchitarira."

Stirlitz haana "kumisa nzeve dzake"

Iyi firimu ye Stirlitz yakatariswa kana kwete yose, saka vazhinji. Uye vateereri vakafungidzira kuti zvakanga zvakaoma sei kuti ave mushure remuvengi. Kana iwe uchifungidzira munhu anonzi antipode akatendeseka, ipapo nyaya inonyanya kushushikana pane yekuongorora kwakaoma kuwana. Ane "vavengi vakamupoteredza" mupfungwa chaiyo uye inomiririra yezwi.

Stirlitz zvichida haana kumbobvunzwa kuti zvinorevei kuti vateerere nzeve dzake nokuda kwezvikonzero zviviri: kutanga, aiziva zvakakwana izvo zvinoreva izvi (semuverengi wedu), uye chechipiri, akanga asina tsika iyi, akachengeta nhengo dzake Kunzwa kana vostro, kana pane vertex, saka hapana chinogona kuputika. Hazvishamisi, nokuti hupenyu hwekutsvaga hunoenderana nekuwanda kwaanogona kunzwa uye kuteerera.

Kuvimba - zvakanaka here kana zvakaipa?

Kunyanya kuvimba munyika munozara nezvinetso, kunyanya munguva dzedu dzakaoma.

Somuenzaniso, mumakore makumi mapfumbamwe nemakumi ezana remakore rechi20 kwakange kune mufaro unofadza wakakomba zvakasiyana-siyana zvepiramidi yemari. Panguva iyoyo vanhu havana kubvunza chero munhu: "Zvinorevei kuomesa nzeve dzako?". Ane tsitsi. Ivo "vakavasungirira" ivo chete vakanyarara uye vakatakura mari yavo yemarudzi ose asina kuchena kuruvoko, kuisa zvinyoro, kuvanhu. Muchidimbu, zvinoreva piramidi yemari ndeyekuti munhu anopa mari shoma, asi anotora zvakawanda.

"Kushushikana!" - munhu wemazuva ano achati. Zvechokwadi, asi izvi zvino kwatiri. Isu tinoshandiswa pakufunga kwehutungamiri wenyika yanhasi. Uyezve, bhizinesi dzimwe nguva inobudirira zvakanyanya pamutengo weavo vanoda kufara "nzeve nzeve" (zvinorehwa neshoko racho rinovhenekera kubva kumativi mazhinji) uye avo vasina nzvimbo ipi neipi.

Zvisinei, ngatisitaure pamusoro pezvinhu zvinosuruvarisa. Zviitiko zvinosuruvarisa zvekare uye zviripo hazvifaniri kuuraya kuvimba kwekuvimba murugare rwemunhu, saka pasina iyo zvakaoma kurarama. Kuora mwoyo hakubatsiri, nokuti zvinhu zvose zvinofanira kutarisirwa zvine musoro. Kana munhu akaudzwa chimwe chinhu, anofanirwa kufunga, uye kana chimwe chinhu chiripo, kana zvichibvira kutenda vanhu vanovimbisa, kana kuti vane zvikonzero zvavo. Mune mamwe mazwi, zviri nani kuti vasatenda uye vagare kure navo.

Kazhinji munhu anoshamisika kuti chii chinoreva "sungira nzeve" paanenge atovhara. Iko ndiko, akaita chaizvo izvo uchenjeri hwevanhu hunonyevera pamusoro. Kune chete chirwere chimwe chete chekunyengedzera kwakanyanya - uku ndiko kufunga, kufunga uye kufunga zvakare.

Kuvimba chinhu chinodiwa chepanyama chemunhu. Mwanakomana anovimba nababa namai, mukoma nomunun'una, uye zvakadaro. Asi munhu haazoteereri baba-doro, anotaura kuti achamira kunwa. Pachava pasina fungiro yekufunga uye nehanzvadzi yeklepomaniac iyo inoti haazoba kunyange mapepa akawanda. Izvo zvine musoro zvinonzwisisika, sezvinoratidzika.

Kana iwe ukapindura mubvunzo pamusoro pezvinorehwa ne "kuisa nzeve dzako" muchirongwa chekunyora, iwe uchawana zvinotevera: huchenjeri hwevanhu hunoyeuchidza vanhu pamusoro pekunyengedzera kwekutenda. Panguva imwecheteyo, kuvimba kwakanaka mumunhu kana chiitiko, kuva nechimwe chikonzero, hausi kusekwa nemashoko.

Mune mamwe mazwi, zvinokwanisika uye zvakakosha kuteerera uye kunzwa, asi nemafungiro, munhu haafaniri kunge asina kukanganisa uye asina maturo, kana ane chokuita nezuva nezuva, hupenyu hwezuva nezuva.