"Mweya": zvinoreva zvinyorwa, kududzira uye mienzaniso

"Shevedzera nemweya." Zvinoreva zvinyorwa zvinyorwa zvinoonekwa nhasi. Inonyengera kunyengera, zvakanaka here kana zvakaipa?

Meaning

Kana iwe uchifunga nezvazvo, ipapo zvinhu zvose mumutauro weRussia zvine chokuita nemwoyo nemweya - zvakanaka. Kana munhu achitaura kubva pamwoyo kana kubva pamwoyo, anotaura achitendeseka, nenzira ine mutsa. Kana zvisingaiti, kazhinji unonzwa: "Hazvibvi pamwoyo". Uye hazvina basa kuti chii chiri pamusoro-chipo kana mazwi.

Nokudaro, "kupomera mweya" (zvinorehwa neshoko rinotevera rinotevera) ndekutaura kana kuita kwete maererano nehana, kunyengera, kunyengera. Mukutaura kwezuva nezuva, kupomera mhosva mweya inoreva: kutaura nhema uye kusaita sezvamunoona zvakakodzera. Kukanganisa kwemwoyo kunotungamirira kumashoko kana zviito zvinopesana nezvitendero zvavo.

Cinematographic Example

Mareji nemagweta havakwanisi zvikuru pakati pevanhu. Zvinotendwa kuti havana hana. Hollywood inobvuma kuvhiringidza kutenda uku nekuita mafirimu pamusoro pevanhu vasina kutendwa, vanowana nekuita mudare nekuchengetedza mhombwe. Ichokwadi, kune chikwereti chevanyori nevatungamiriri, inofanira kurehwa kuti anenge mafirimu ose haangori kurova mareji pasina, asi ane chimwe chimiro chenguva.

Semuenzaniso, firimu ra1998 "Murevi wenhema," inongova munhu anowanzozvidza mweya (zvinorehwa neshoko remashoko zvinoratidzwa zvishoma zvishoma) zvepamusoro. Pakutanga kwefirimu, hero yaJim Carrey (Fletcher Reed) murume asina kunyatsogadzikana uyo anorota kukwira mapoka uye munzira yake kuenda kune chinangwa chake haanzwisisi nzira yakawanda. Anorara nguva dzose. Kunyange kumwanakomana wake muduku. Asi rimwe zuva Max-mwanakomana waFletcher, pamusi wekuzvarwa kwake, akaita chido chokuti kamwe zuva rimwe baba vake vaisareva nhema. Zvechokwadi, kune vanhu vakaita saFRid, iyi injodzi, asi sezvo gweta rinodzidza kutaura "chokwadi, chokwadi chete uye hapana asi chokwadi," anonzwisisa chimwe chinhu chakakosha zvikuru. Somuenzaniso, hazvina kunaka kutsoropodza nemweya (zvinorehwa neshoko rinotsanangurwa rinoratidzwa nemuenzaniso unofananidzira), kunyange nekuda kwemari yakawanda. Kunewo hutsika hwakakwirira, kuwedzera pane pfuma yepfuma.

Apo munhu ari mweya muupenyu hwezuva nezuva

Mhinduro kumubvunzo wakanyorwa mubhuku: nhamo, nguva dzose. Vanhu vanoreva nhema:

• Pamba.
• Pabasa.
• Iva neshamwari.

Uye kunyange zvazvo munhu wezvimwe zvitsika achiziva kukosha kwekodzero yechokwadi yakakwana uye yakakwana, anosarudza kuisa maruva uye kunyengera muvakidzani wake, asi kwete kubva kune zvakaipa. Pamba, vanhu vanoreva nhema kuti vasagumbura avo vavanoda. Pabasa, anomanikidzwa kutaura kuti haasi kubviswa kana kuti kuwana mamwe mapepa kubva kuvakuru vake. Anoreva nhema kune shamwari, sepakutanga, nokuti chokwadi chinokuvadza. Zvinoreva uye kududzirwa kwemashoko okuti "kupomera mweya" kunokuita kuti ufunge pamusoro pezvakavhiringidza: kune rumwe rutivi, chokwadi chiri chakanakisisa. Munhu wechokwadi anokoshesa zvikuru, anonzi inheyo. Kutendeseka kunoremekedzwa pakati pevanhu. Uye kune rumwe rutivi, munhu anotaura kuti "chokwadi, chokwadi uye hapana asi chokwadi" ndechokushaya mwoyo. Iyo yekupedzisira yakajeka.

Dr. Dzimba: "Vanhu vose vari kureva nhema." Zvakanaka kana zvakaipa here?

Dzimba Imwe muenzaniso wekuti chokwadi chete chinonzi cynic chinogona kunamata chokwadi chakakwana. Mumwe chiremba anonyatsoziva anotsvaga maitiro ehupenyu hwevanhu uye anovanza kubva kwaari pachake kudzvinyirira kwehupenyu hwake.

Zvechokwadi, zvinoreva uye kududzirwa kwe "kupomera mweya" (phraseology) inodzvinyirira kuti: "Hungu, unyengeri hunoziva hwakashata." Asi kusakanganiswa nguva dzose kwechokwadi chiri chikamu chinokosha chehupenyu hwemagariro evanhu. Ichokwadi chiri chakaipa zvikuru kuti urege kuchikanda kuvanhu vane maoko. Icho chiri chirevo "Zviri nani chokwadi chinorwadza kupfuura nhema inotapira," asi mumabhizimisi vanhu vanoda kunaka kwekutambudzika.

Saka, zvakashata kupomera mweya kana:

• Munhu anoita izvi muchivanze, uye zvipfeko zvevamwe vanhu zvinoenderana nekuvimbika kwake.
• Munhu wacho anobvunzwa kuti ataure chokwadi.
• Izvi zvinoitwa nekuda kwekusimudzirwa uye mamwe mazano.

Asi kupa mhosva mweya unofanirwa, kana munhu achiziva kuti chokwadi chichakonzera marwadzo.

Asi pano zvakakosha kusiyanisa marwadzo kubva narcissism nekunyengera. Kana munhu achiziva kuti paanenge ataura chokwadi anowira munharaunda, zvino zvakakosha kurega, uye kana akave nechokwadi kuti achasunungura munhu kubva pakunyengedza, kubva pakutapwa kwe narcissism, zvino munhu anofanira kurova chinangwa asi asinganono. Dambudziko nderokuti muganhu uri pakati peumwe neumwe wakajeka, uye munhu haagoni kusiyanisa mumwe kubva kune mumwe.

Zvinoreva zvinyorwa, zvinopomerwa nemweya, hazvirevi chinetso chakasiyana uye chirabwe, asi munhu anogona kukakavara pamusoro pemitemo yekugadzirisa kubva pamashoko asingagumi.