Sei ari XXI remakore kuyaruka inofadza apo vakuru vari mwoyo?

Chii chaizoita sokuti banal kudanwa kunakidzwa makore asinganetseki uduku uye kuyaruka? Zvinonyatsozivikanwa kuti vechiduku vasina vakaremerwa nekufunganya kurarama kufara vanhu vakuru. Uye, zvakadaro, mutongo uyu nguva shoma vakanga mubvunzo pashure pacho yakabuda kuti mumakore gumi ari chiuru chemakore chokutanga chaicho kugutsikana nazvo thirties, asi pakati kuyaruka zviri kunzwa kuwana ishoma. Zvino, pakupedzisira, mufaro zvakavamba kuchinja anokandazve nenzira duku.

30 - kuti zvakanaka. Asi ...

Saka, kusvikira 2010 kuyaruka anzwe asina kuchengeteka. Pashure pezvose, Chokwadi zvaiita kuti jaya - kwete yakanakisisa nguva muupenyu. ruzivo Life hazvikwani, izvo zvinoreva kuti pane matambudziko akawanda uye ngozi pamusoro izvo hapana anozivikanwa. "Vakatsinhanisa" gumi wechina, vanhu kazhinji chinhu muupenyu vakatsvaka uye raiva zvinoshamisa zera apo vazhinji vachiri anogona, asi achitoziva zvakawanda, izvo zvinoita kuti yokunzvenga vazhinji misungo, zvinechinangwa kuvavarira vabudirire. Income unoitawo basa rinokosha, nekuti mari yakawanda kubhadhara nyanzvi, uye saka vakabva vava hazviiti, zvinotora makore kudzidza pamwe nguva kuti hunobatsira ruzivo. Kazhinji, makore 30 okuberekwa - akwegura kwazvo kuti vose varume nevakadzi. Saka zvaifungwa kusvikira munenge 2010. Asi zvichangobva kudzidzwa ndeyenhema nokusatya ichi. zvabuda dzavo anobudiswa American yesayenzi inonzi Social Psychological uye Unhu Science Allison P. Davis.

A pamwero mukuru tsvakurudzo

By tsvimbo weDhipatimendi Social Psychology University of San Diego (CA) ichangobva kuitwa zvakawanda pakudzidza, ane chinangwa chaiva kuona padanho mufaro pakati duku chizvarwa uye vanhu "matatu". Kazhinji, basa rakadaro kunoratidzwa imwe ongororo yakaitwa vashomanana pane dzakawanda vadzidzi pachavo, nokuti nyore chikonzero kuti zviri nyore kuita. Panguva ino, vanachiremba akatanga nyaya uye akasvika nyaya akamboona. A zvachose boka vaongorori akatungamirira Gene Twenge vakabvunzurudzwa 1.27 Mill. Uye kuyaruka vanopfuura 50 zviuru vakuru pamusoro navanopinda zera siyana kubvira 18 kusvika 96 makore. Migumisiro vakawana pashure kubudiswa, vaiva masayendisiti kutishamisa.

Vose mhosva kwekangaidziko?

Somugumisiro, vanhu tariro vanhu nemakore "matatu chinhu" iri shoma pamwero. Vaongorori vakanga kutapwa kunzwisisa zvinokonzera ichi chinosuruvarisa chakajairika kuti yakabuda mumakore mashanu apfuura. Jean Twenge kwete rokutanga gore kufunga nei vanhu vakura dzimwe nguva hwapedza nemigumisiro yakanaka muupenyu, kutevera pfungwa dzake zvakasuruvara. Iye kunyange akanyora bhuku rinonzi "Generation I" uye migumisiro hombe-pamwero Ongororo akasimbisa zvimwe zvekungofungira ayo. mutsvakurudzi anoshandisa izwi "kunyanyisa kutarisira wechiduku" mubasa rake. Chii? kunzwa Uyu mumwe kushushikana, ndiko kuti, pfupi tarisiro yokuti chaizvoizvo pachako basa. Vanhu chete vakava zvishoma kwete avo vanoda kuva vaduku uye kuyaruka. Saka, akamirira kunonakidza yakazara Zororo reGore Idzva ndiyo chaikunda pati, pakarepo kuratidza hakunakidzi.

MuEurope US

Panyaya iyi, anonakidza kutarisa kwakaitwa ongororo muna 2006 mu Europe. Kunyanya, vokuDenmark vanoonekwa vagari yakabudirira zvikuru nyika iri kuongorora akaratidza kumbonyanya pasi netarisiro kuti gore rinouya, apo mashoko akaratidza kuti Italy uye Greece, achitora nzvimbo yakaderera iri mwero kugutsikana noupenyu hwavo, vakaratidza yakakwirira azvipire tarisiro.

Takawana vamwe empirical hwokuti vanhu nhasi vakakunda makumi matatu kunze, akaita achiri muduku akanga dzaona kuzadzisa zvizhinji kana ichienzaniswa kuyaruka vekare. Twenge rinorevawo migumisiro ine National kuongorora vokusekondari kuti iye nevamwe vake vari zvakare akabvuma kupatsanurwa Database.

In tichienzanisa manonwe

Youth netarisiro pakutanga remakore kwakawedzera zvikuru, mune zvimwe zviitiko nekaviri mumakore makumi mana apfuura. Somuenzaniso, muna 1970 isingasviki hafu vadzidzi akaongororwa vakafunga kuti zvichaita nenzvimbo managerial zvinzvimbo, kana vanosvika nemakore matatu. Nhasi, kwakadaro kwakanga 64%. Panyaya iyi, chinhu chinokosha hwokusagutsikana ndiyo kusaruramisira. Kana munhu muduku, iye haazivi sei navamwe vake basa. Ari chete kuenda kuzviita, asi nomurairo Avharenji, vanhu vakawanda havagoni kuva vakuru.

upenyu Personal

Kuwedzera mari uye basa, kuAmerica kutarisira zvakawanda kubva kumuchato wavo - anoti Eli Finkel, musayendisiti, anoongorora pfungwa pana kumavirira University. Kana kare murume akabatsira asangane kupfuura zvinodiwa (vakarima minda kana kungoita mari), asi zvino vazhinji muchimirira murume kana mudzimai kuti rutsigiro kuzadzisa mukuru kuzviremekedza, kuzvicheka-mashoko uye munhu kukura. michato More zvikuru kuitika nokuda kuzvipira izvi zvinodiwa. Pokuwa tariro kunoodza mwoyo. Zvino pane dambudziko midlife, iyo, sezvo chikazozikamwa, hunokonzera kuparara kwemhuri dzakawanda ...

mwoyo utariri

Zvokuita? Kana isu kufungidzira tsvagai wokuti kudzokera uye kutaura pachako, chii vangataura izvi kune wechiduku pakasikwa ano-gore matatu murume? Vamwe vanhu vakaratidza maonero kuti zvaizova nani kuti varege vanonanga dzakakwirira. Asi ichi hachisi nezvechisarudzo. Nei pakarepo pokugumira zvido zvavo uye mapfumo hope? Pamwe iwe ndanzwawo yakakwirira uchiri kuda? The chete caveat - zvinofanira kuva zvinokwanisika. zviroto Sky-kumusoro kunogona kukangaidzika, uye vakaona kuti Jean Twenge somugumisiro kwavo tsvakurudzo.

Asi wake co-munyori Sonia Lubomirski A nyore uye inoshanda nzira kushandisa kukangaidzika. Zvinoratidzika pachena, asi vakawanda sokuti pfungwa akachenjera chero bedzi vakanga vasina chinozoiswa uchidzidzira. The ongororo yakaratidza Lubomirski underrated simba kutenda "pamusana zvaunazvo." The mushandi akati kuzvimba zvaunotarisira kunyanya zvinoparadza. Get chinzvimbo akanaka, mushandi ratova kurota munhu repamusoro chair. Atarisana nomukomana kukuru, mumwe musikana anowana kuti kureba kwakanga duku. Zvichingodaro. Vanachiremba uye evanhu akatoumba mashoko okuti "hedonic wekusimbisa muviri." Asi mufaro haisi pfungwa ...