Sei pfungwa dzako zvaanoita kana iwe anoseka?

"Fungidzira kana mumwe munhu akakudanai munhu maturo maturo murume." Saka anotanga mushumo pamusoro ongororo ichangobva. Chokwadi, zvakaoma kuti munhu angada kuzviita, asi nokuda kuedza zvinogona kumbofungidzira. Masayendisiti kubva UK uye Netherlands vakaramba: "Zvino fungidzira kuti vanhu vashomanene kupupurira ichi uye vanotanga kumuseka iwe." Vanotsvakurudza izvi vaida kuziva zviri kuitika panguva ino chete pfungwa dzenyu, kureva, kwete chete uri kana achitukwa, asi kana muri kumativi vanhu vanoseka pako.

Musimboti kuedza

Kwepfungwa uye munyori Kristian Dzharrett anotsanangura sei kuedza ichi rakagadzirirwa: "Martha Otten nevamwe vake vakabvunza 46 vechikamu kuti verenga matanhatu nokunyombwa uye zvakafanana uwandu compliments, dzakanga kuratidzwa chidzitiro, mumwe shoko panguva. Hafu kushungurudzwa (semuenzaniso, "Muri nyararisa uye kunetsa") uye compliments (semuenzaniso, "Imi muri simba uye akazvimirira") aiva hurukuro revanhu, kuratidzwa nechepasi kumucheto chidzitiro, uye nyaya dzakadaro, achangogara anokutenda kana nokutuka rakawedzerwa okuti "uye ivo vanotenda saka kuti "pamwe chete inzwi kuseka, urwo rwakatora masekonzi maviri. Munguva yose kuedza, masayendisiti akanyora uropi mafungu vechikamu tichibatsirwa eeg (electroencephalogram). "

Migumisiro?

Brain vechikamu akaratidza zvikuru hunoshamisa zviratidzo mupfungwa kubudiswa pashure nokunyombwa pane compliments pashure. More chaizvo, vatsvakurudzi vakatsvaka uchapupu chii anonzi "mukupera zvakanaka zvinogona", iro Jarrett arondedzera se "yakanaka sefungu pfungwa basa kuti kunoitika munguva pakati milliseconds 30 uye 1 rechipiri pashure vakurukurirane." Zvino nokutuka Akaperekedzwa kuseka vazhinji, ichi kubudiswa mupfungwa aiva akasimba zvikuru uye dzakapfuura ipapa kana vechikamu chete ndakanzwa kumhura.

The pavakanzwa akaipa

Unonzwa kumurumbidza uye mberi. Asi kunyomba chinopinda kupinda pfungwa dzenyu, uye unofunga kukosha kwayo yakareba kupfuura iwe funga mashoko yemhando kero yenyu. Uye tsvakurudzo dzinoratidza kuti izvi zviri kunyange akasimba kana nokutuka iri pamwe kuseka vazhinji. Izvi zvinogona kuonekwa se muenzaniso chetsinga "kutsvetera ari akaipa", kuti dzidziso kuti firimu iine katsika kukonzera yakakura mhinduro pane zvakanaka zviri mune vamwe. Kana waita wambogamuchira kuti basa rake yakanaka tinyatsonzwisisa kubva zvinenge zvose kumativi, asi vachiri akanyorwa pamusoro nomumwe siyana kutsoropodzwa, unofanira akanzwa pachangu. Nemamwe mashoko, uropi zvikuru kushingaira pamusoro kubudiswa mhosva kupfuura mishonga compliments.