Sei tichida vana? Mhuri yakakwana. Batsira vana

Vangani vana vanofanira kunge vari mumhuri, kuitira kuti munhu wese afare? Zvinosuruvarisa, hapana mhinduro isina kukodzera kumubvunzo uyu. Kuti ugadzirise dambudziko rakadaro iwe pachako, funga nezvehupenyu hwehupenyu hwose, huchazokurukura pasi apa.

Maruva ehupenyu

Sei tichida vana? Zvichida, usati watanga pamuviri wakarongwa unofanira kutanga uzvibvunze mubvunzo uyu. Vakadzi vakawanda vanotarisa kumashure kune hama nevamwe, vachiona zvisingabviri mafungiro evanhu kana kuti kunyanya kutungamira hupenyu hwavo maererano nezvakaitika kare. Vanorera vana nekuda kwekuti "vanofanira", vasingafungi nezvekuti simba remuviri uye rezvemweya richave sei rinofanira kuisa mune ramangwana mumwana, kwete kutaura nezvemari. Vakaroorana vane chimwe chikonzero havakurumidzi kuwana mwana anodiwa vanova vavariro chaiyo yehama dzepedyo uye vashandi pamwe navo: munhu wose anofunga basa ravo kubvunza kuti: "Rini?" Uye yeuka nguva iyoyo iri kupera, uye kuberekwa kwekupedzisira kwakaputirwa nezvengozi dzakawanda uye njodzi.

Kubva pane zvakanyanyisa kusvika kune zvakanyanya

Kune rumwe rutivi, mhuri, umo vana vakawanda, vanotarisana nekurwiswa kwemarudzi akasiyana. Amai-heroines vanowanzozvidzwa nokuda kwenhamba yakawanda yepinogryzes, kana mhuri isingararami zvakanaka uye haikwanise kugadzirisa nguva yakakodzera imba kana kutenga zvidhori zvevana vatsva. "Maruva ehupenyu" anoita seakashandurwa kubva kune vana vanofara vana-cheeked muzvikwereti zvisina kubhadharwa, mbatya dzakashandiswa mune dzimwe mbatya dzomumwe munhu, shangu dzomumwe munhu, dzakasakara nemumwe munhu, uye sweets shoma pane nzvimbo yakasarudzika chokoleti mazai. Vanhu vanokanganwa kuti mhuri yakakwana-ndeye kubatana kwemweya yakasiyana asi isingagoneki, uye kwete kwete vanhu vakuru vapfumi kana varombo uye boka revana vavo.

Munhu wese anozvisarudzirira ivo pachavo

Munguva pfupi yapfuura, shanduko yakadaro yehutano sechayldfri - chimiro chekugara kwevanhu chinenge chichizivisa kusununguka kufunga pamusoro pekupedzera kwemhuri nekushaiwa kwevana mairi-kwave kwakapararira. Childfri kazhinji haatenderi kunzwisisa kuti sei vana vachidiwa, uye vachida nemaune kuramba vari mazita avo, vasingadi kusunga maoko avo netsoka nekudiwa kwekutarisira uye kuchengetedza kamu carapace. Vanotenda kuti kune vanhu vakawanda kare pasi rose, uye pasina rupo rwavo mukudzorerwa kwevanhu nyika ichashanda nyore nyore. Vadzidzisi vemunzira iyi vanokoshesa rusununguko rwavo, mukana wekuenda chero kupi zvako uye kuita chero chavanoda, kupedza nguva sezvavanoona zvakakodzera. Havadi chero zvikwereti zvekare uye vasina maturo, mumaonero avo, matambudziko. Childfrey anozviraramira ivo pachavo uye kune waanoda.

Izvo zvakasiyana nevana vasina vana ndivo amai vevana vazhinji nemadzibaba. Havana kunyange kuzvibvunza kuti nei vachida vana, uye musarota pamusoro pemwana wemumwe munhu wepabonde. Vanobereka michato yakawanda nekuda kwekuti vanonzwa vavariro yavo mune izvi, nokuti mwoyo yavo inodiwa kupa ruzhinji rwe rudo, nokuti muvana vanowana nyaradzo, kudzivirirwa mupfungwa kubva kune zvakaitika kunze, tariro yakadzama yokuti zvose zvichagara zvakanaka. Aya maonero anewo kodzero yakakwana yekuvapo.

Kushingaira kubva kunze

Zvinoratidzika kuti sangano richagara risingagutsikani. Kana pasina vana, zvinofanira kuve nazvo. Kana mwana ari oga, anoda chaizvo hama kana hanzvadzi. Kana pane vana vaviri, zvingava zvakanaka kubereka chetatu uye kuwana mamiriro emhuri yakakura kuitira kuti unakidzwe neropafadzo dzevanhu dzakakodzera. Uye kana pane vana vanopfuura vatatu ... Muchiitiko chekupedzisira, vanhu vazhinji vanobva kune zvakanaka mazano kune zvisiri izvo kuongorora uye kutsoropodza.

Apo mwana ari oga

Zvichakadaro, hakuna munhu anofungisisa kuti nei vaviri vacho vane mwana mumwe chete uye nei vakaroorana vasina kukurumidza kuva nevana vakawanda. Kazhinji, vakadzi vane carapace imwe chete ndevamwe vekare vakamboita nezvehama kana maonero evanhu uye vakaberekera mwanakomana kana mwanasikana nokuti "zvakafanira." Vanaamai vaduku, avo vakanga vasina kutanga vakagadzirira kutaura nevana vaduku, vakazviwana vari mumamiriro ezvinhu akaoma zvikuru, vakavhiringidzwa nekutambudzika kwekupedzisira kwebasa uye vakabudisa kubva pane zvavaiva nazvo pakutanga kuburikidza naamai bedzi zvisina kunaka uye zvakaipa. Hazvina maturo kutaura, havadi kuva nevana vakawanda, nokuti vanotya kudzokorora dambudziko rave vatoona. Hapana nguva yekurara, hapana hune simba rekuchenesa imba, hapana kukwana kwakakwana kunoteerera kuchema kwevana uye kubata mwana kubva mukusava necolic, pasina mari yekamu mukaka, nokuti mukaka wemuviri hauna kusvika kana kupisa kare kare ... Hapana chido chokurarama. Uyu ndiwo mufananidzo wekupera kwepabonde, shure kwekubata pamuviri kune umwe mukadzi, tsika dzisina kugadzirira kuva mai.

Kwete hama kana hanzvadzi

Zvechokwadi, kune zvimwe zvikonzero zvekusava nevana vanopfuura imwe chete. Kune mumwe munhu kupfuurira kwemhuri hakusi chinhu chinonyanya kukosha muhupenyu: zvakakwana kutaura nemumwe chete, asi asingadikanwi mwana anodiwa. Mumwe munhu haakwanisi kubata pamuviri kana kubereka uye anoramba achirwa nekutambudzika kwakaipa kwe "kusununguka" kana kusagadzikana kwekamuviri kamuviri. Zvirwere zvezvirwere zvevakadzi mune zvevakadzi uye kukanganisa hura hwevarume, matambudziko emari uye kusava nechokwadi mune ramangwana, kwete chiitiko chinonakidza chekumutsa mwana wekutanga hachisi zvikonzero zvose zvokunyatsopokana nekudiwa kwevana, uye kusvika pakugumisa pamusoro pekukwanisa Zvizvarwa. Iko kunofanirwa kutonga vanhu vakauya kune izvi here? Ndinofanira kuvayeuchidza nekusingaperi kuti vanogona 'kutevera wechipiri' here?

Batsira vana

Nzvimbo yemagariro evanhu ekugamuchirwa kunogona, zvichida, inofungidzirwa seimwe yevanonyanya kubudirira. Mukana wekutora mutemo pasi pemwana wako wemumwe wemumwe uye kumumutsa sewe pachako wakaunza mufaro wakamirira kwenguva refu kumakumi ezviuru nemamiriyoni evana vasina vana. Vanosarudza kubvisa mudzimba dzevana vatsva - "refuseniks", kuitira kuti mwana wacho asatomboyeuka mai vake chaivo uye vanofunga kuti vabereki vanorera kuti vave ropa. Zvisinei, vana vakwegura vanewo mukana wekuwana mufaro mumhuri itsva. Vakawanda vavo vakapedzisira vari mumisasa pashure pokudzivisa vana vasina kuroorwa vane kodzero dzevabereki. Sezvo wakadzidza kubva kune zvakaitika kwauri zvakaoma sei kurarama nekunwa nevabereki vane utsinye, ava vaduku, asi kure nevana vasina mavambo havakwanisi kusangana nemoyo munyoro uye rudo. Uye zvakadaro, vaine chokwadi chekusiyanisa kwakakosha mumafungiro, vanowanzodzorera rudo rwavakapiwa uye kubata vabereki vavo vatsva zvikuru kune vamwe vaduku vane baba chaivo uye amai. Vana vanobvuma, vanotorwa mumhuri mitsva panguva yakajeka, vanogara nokusingaperi vachionga kune avo vakavaponesa kubva mumatambudziko ehugaro. Munhu wese anokwanisa kuita basa iri rakanaka - kutora mwana akasiyiwa asina kutarisirwa kwomwana. Asi funga funga: iwe unonyatsoziva here kuti iwe uchakwanisa kumupa zvose zvaunopa mwana wako ropa?

Mamwe mazwi mashoma pamusoro pezvinoreva upenyu

Saka, nei tichida vana? "Kuva"? Kugutsa hutano hwako hwemadzimai uye hubaba, hwakagadzirwa nemhando? Kuti zvikure vanhu vakanaka kubva kwavari munguva yemberi? Ko vana, saka, zvinoreva upenyu?

Mhinduro yakawanda kumubvunzo wokuti "sei" yakapiwa naAlbert Einstein. Mukufunga kwake, mubvunzo upi zvawo unogona kupindurwa nenzira inotevera: munhu anoita nenzira imwechete kana imwe chete nokuti nekuda kwechiito chakakodzera, kutaura kana kuita chimwe chinhu iye anoita kuti anzwe kugutsikana kwaari uye kune vamwe. Uye zvirokwazvo, ngatidzokere kumuenzaniso wokutanga. Pane chido chekugarana kwevanhu kuti uve nemwana. Paanenge achizvara dangwe, mukadzi anogutsikana, kune rumwe rutivi, iye oga amaikadzi vemuviri uye anotevera zvakarongeka zvezvinyorwa zvekuchengetedza mhuri, uye kune rumwe rutivi, zvinosangana nezvido zvevanhu vanoda kuti kuvapo kwevana munenge mhuri imwe neimwe. Einstein inogona kushandiswa nyore nyore kune imwe mamiriro ezvinhu. Sei? Kuti uwane manzwiro ekugutsikana! Kana iwe uchida vana kuti ufare, usatarisa maitiro evanhu vemunharaunda - kuwana zvakawanda sezvaunoda uye unokwanisa kuwana. Kana iwe usingadi - zvakare, usati waita nekurwiswa uye kuda kwevamwe, rega chayldfri.

Ndizvo chete zvaunosarudza.