Kuti tikwanise kutenga mari yatinoda, iyo inoshaya pano uye ikozvino, tinoshandisa zvikwereti zvebhengi. Uye kazhinji nekukurumidza, hatitombofungi nezvekuti zvinobatsira sei kutora chikwereti - zvese pfungwa dzatova nezvemotokari itsva, muchina wokugeza kana firiji, uye hapana nguva yekuverenga. Asi kunyange kusiyanisa zvakanyanya maererano nekutora chikwereti kunogona (pakupedzisira) kunonyanya kuchinja chikamu chemari yakapedzerwa. Chimwe chinowanzoitika: munhu ari kutsvaga kuti ungakurumidza kutenga chikwereti, asingazivi kuti nekushandisa imwe hafu yeawa kuti uenzanise nemamiriro ezvinhu emamwe masangano emari, unogona kuchengetedza zvakawanda.
Makadhi emakadhi akambotidzidzisa kuti tirarame mune chikwereti. Zvinhu zvose zviri nyore, mushure mokunge vasvika muzera rehuwandu, munhu wese anoda nechipfupa kwehafu yeawa anogona kutora kadhi, kwete kunyatsofunga pamusoro pokuti zvinobatsira sei kutora chikwereti. Kunyange kuzorora nhasi, vazhinji vari mune chikwereti, kwete kutaurira kusadhura kunodhura.
Zvisinei, havasi vose vanonzwisisa kuti bhangi ichafanirwa kubhadhara kushandiswa kwemari, uye saka kazhinji vanovaona semari yavo pachavo. Zvakanyatsofanana nenzira imwe chete, kwete vose vanonzwisisa kuti vangabhadhara chikwereti chei, kana zvichabatsira kune vose kana kuti zvinoguma nei zvinogona kutungamirira. Uye inowanzoitika kakawanda kuitira kuti urege kungotora chikwereti chekwereti, asi uchifanira kupa mari yako. Saka, zvakakosha kuverenga zvisati zvaitika zvichazoita kuti iwe uwane chikwereti chakadai uye kubhadhara kwayo. Zvinokwanisika kuti kutenga chinhu chakakosha kunenge kuchibatsira zvikuru kuchengetedza mari munguva pfupi, panzvimbo yekushandisa kune zvikwereti zvekwereti.
Iko kunopera kune "mhirizhonga yechikwereti". Bhengi yebhadhiro inodzidzisa vanhu kuti vabate mari nenzira yakananga. Kuyeuka zvavanosungirwa, vanosiyana nekuvaka mararamiro avo uye mararamiro avo, vadzidza kunyatsotsanangurira, uye saka zvishoma nezvishoma vanoshandiswa pakugadzirisa zvemari uye kukudziridza kukwanisa kuronga ramangwana ravo pachavo.
Kune zvikwereti zvakawanda zvekwereti nhasi. Izvi zvikwereti zvekutenga zvivako, kubhadhara dzidzo, kuvhura kwebhizimisi ravo pachavo, pamwe. Mumwe nomumwe wavo mune mamwe masangano emari akasiyana anoshandiswa nenzira dzakasiyana, ndicho chikonzero nei zvakakosha kuverenga kuti zvinobatsira sei kutora chikwereti. Dzimwe nguva zvinowanzoitika kuti vanhu vakanyatsofunga kusarudza purogiramu yezvikwereti, uye voisa mucherechedzo muchibvumirano pasina kuchiverenga kusvikira pakuguma uye kwete kunzwisisa ivo pachavo mamiriro ezvinhu chaiwo pavanenge vachiwana mari yekushandisa. Sezvo mutemo, unoguma nehuchokwadi chokuti mushure mechinguva munhu anotanga "kufungidzira" pamusoro pekuwana mari zvakare. Iwe unoda kutora chikwereti zvakanyanyisa, kuverenga mikana yako kazhinji, kunyatsoverenga chikwangwani, uone kuti zvinobatsira zvakadini kutora chikwereti, saka hakuzovi nemusoro wekudzikinura.
Chinhu chikuru ndechokunzwisisa kuti kugadzirwa kwechikwereti hakufaniri kuva magumo pachega. Asi, ndeimwe yenzira dzakawanda dzekugadzirisa matambudziko ehupenyu hunotangira. Iri ibasa raunofanira kuripa.