Mhinduro mubvunzo wakaoma: "sei kukunda kusurukirwa?"

The zvakawanda pane hwokugadzira kukwanisa kutaura, kuti zvimwe vanhu vanonzwa kure kubva nzanga yavo mupfungwa yakati mhando. Pamusoro kutaurirana chete kunowedzera pfungwa waperawo rastravlivaemoe kubudirira mifananidzo network. Photos nevamwe vanhu. Kana iwe pakarepo kubvunza ichi kutambura mubvunzo: "Ndinoita sei kusurukirwa" - unogona pakarepo kuona misodzi kana zvimwe zvikuru mupfungwa kuita. tinogona kuwana nzira kubva mamiriro ezvinhu akaoma?

Kutukwa kusatenda

The kutombonaka ndiyo kutadza kutaura - kutenda kwemunhu pakuti haagoni kuvaka ukama yakadzika uye zvakakura. Kudavira kuti zvose vakafanira rudo, kunze. Roots Chokwadi, uyai kubva pauduku hwangu, asi kutambura vanhu vanogona kukanganwira vabereki vake, iye haagoni kuita musiyano. Havaedzi kuchinja dzaitwa, tinogona uye tinofanira kurarama. Zvino nomusi kungopotsera mashoko mubvunzo, "sei kusurukirwa" - achapa mhinduro akatendeseka: "Handichagoni oga (a)."

rudo

Chinhu chokutanga kuyeuka: hwoushamwari uye kuvimba ukama - ichi hachisi yakakwirira achifunga uye ndozvakajairwa kuti kudyidzana kwevanhu. Zvichida uri chete kutsvaka zvakaipa vanhu vari ukama, kuti ndiro danho rokutanga - kuchinja zvachose. Sei kubvisa kusurukirwa? Vanachiremba angarayira kuti vatsvake misangano nevanhu vemamwe marudzi, kwete chii vakadaro yawakajaira kuona vakamupoteredza. Unofanira idzva kukurukurirana ano, uye basa pane rinokosha kudzidzira kwavo zvakanaka.

Uye chii chinogona ndinopa?

Danho rechipiri - the Kuongororwa yawo inobvira inobatsira vamwe. Panguva iyoyowo aikoshesa kwete chete ruzivo nounyanzvi, asiwo kugona kuteerera, ongorora, kufembera. Chokwadi, unofanira kupedza nguva yavo uye kufunga nezvezvaunoda pachavo. Asi kusvikira ukadzidza kuisa chinhu ari kukurukura, haufaniri kuwana kuva kubudirira pakukurukurirana. Kusurukirwa uye Kusabatsira, kazhinji chokuita kusurukirwa kunobatanidzwa kunyange kushaya pamwe uye kushaya ruzivo chaiwo (wako mhando mafungiro) ari fomu. Saka chete vanofanira kuyeuka chii yaimbonzi angafadzwa uye kwakamutsa hwako kufarira muupenyu. Uye usaedza kuwana muripo nokuda kwokushayiwa mashoko zvakananga kubva kuvanhu.

The yakanaka Ipfungwa

How kukunda kusurukirwa? Mhinduro yakarurama yomubvunzo uyu: "Kuramba kutsvaga ruzivo rutsva, ongorora yaivapo, kuedza zvokufungidzira vanhuwo zvido uye kuwedzera kuwanda kwavo zvavanofarira, kuti kutaura nyaya yakasiyana." Pashure pezvose, pasina kudikanwa ushamwari hakusi sokuti hatina vakaedza kumunyengetedza zvimwe vateveri Unconditional. Just yakadaro ushamwari norudo Feeds hazvisi zvinhu, uye manzwiro. Izvozvowo - mhando maererano.

Kuna mubvunzo, "sei kusurukirwa" - kuuya misodzi, zvinokosha kupedza matambudziko yayo panguva kudzidziswa kana wepfungwa kutsvaka nekuhama mweya uye dzidza kutarisira ruzivo yavo inoda. Communication anova zvibereko zvakawanda kana hunosanganisira akazvimirira communicant. Usaora mwoyo, ingotenda mariri, kuti pane vanhu kupfuura avo yawakajaira. Uye anowedzera mukana wokuti kushamwaridzana zvakanaka vanhu kuburikidza neshamwari itsva.