Age zvinhu uye interpersonal ukama

Mumwe zera uye padanho kukura ine yayo zvinhu. Somuenzaniso, mashoko ari munhu "Ini" nemakore 3 years, kufarirwa uye uchikwezvwa kuti vasikana pakati kuyaruka, uchenjeri hwenyika uye ruzivo vakuru.

Age zviri kwevanhu simba rake hunhu, maitiro, ukama nevamwe vanhu uye maitiro zvavo. Murume unopfuura rimwe zera nguva zvayo inotungamirwa, rimwe nerimwe dzinoenderana maitiro zera ichi, mupfungwa mabasa uye unhu. Ivo ndivo hwaro mabasa ayo ose, kutsanangura dzayo pokutanga muupenyu.

Ngatimboongorora muchidimbu ukama "zera zvinhu uye interpersonal ukama."

Kubva achiri muduku, mwana anodzidza kukurukura nevamwe. kunyemwerera wokutanga, yakanyorerwa amai, kuratidzwa rokutanga manzwiro, shamwari itsva uye vasikana - bhora zvose izvi interpersonal ukama.

In paucheche (kumativi mwedzi mitanhatu pazera) muvana anotanga kuoneka vasiyana akapoteredza vanhu. Kazhinji, vana vari vazhinji kuda amai, uye ipapo vamwe hama neshamwari. Most rudo kunoratidzwa yokuti pamberi mwana mai kunyemwerera zvakawanda, chemai zvishoma, asi chinhu babbles uye inoratidza hapana kufunganya.

Emotional kutaurirana chete vakuru anova muzera rino huru uye hune basa mwana.

Panozopera gore mwana wokutanga, zvaunofarira zvitsva kuti inomuka kazhinji mukufamba pamwe basa. Mwana anowana nyika anonzwisisa zvinokosha, ichitsvaka chokwadi. Dzidza kutaura, anobvunza mibvunzo yakawanda chokuita dzakapoteredza zvinhu, uye dzimwe nguva chete kukotsira pavo vakuru. Izvi zvinoratidza zera kwayo zvinhu.

With tsanangudzo mwana kuenda kukireshi panguva nembudzana pane mamiriro ezvinhu matsva - vezera ake. Uye zvinokosha kutaurirana navo vari mune mutambo. Mwana, nokutamba, plunges munzvimbo itsva mumagariro rhodium. Uye anenge kokutanga nechisarudzo Dzidziso "kodzero uye mitoro". Nokuti mbudzana kuti zera ava chinokosha nzvimbo zvinotora iri chikwata. Mune remangwana, zvingava sei hunhu hwake uye kukurukura nevezera ravo Papera muupenyu, sezvo vari denderedzwa wake vezera, anogona kuva mutungamiriri, uye 'kushayiswa'.

Age zviri vechikoro kuva nezvahunoita ukama vake vakuru uye vezera rako. Nokusvika wechikoro mwana vatenzi itsva basa - mboni. Uye basa rinokosha dzokukurukurirana kutamba yake kwete chete navo asiwo mudzidzisi. Pakutanga, mwana ari kutodzidza sei kuzadzisa ayo zvose zvinodiwa. Asi zvishoma nezvishoma zvinova zvaigara uye otanga yakareba chinokosha nzvimbo yakadaro. Nguva yakaomesesa kuwana vadzidzi kuyaruka, umo ukama nevamwe nenzvimbo nzvimbo kukosha. Heano mabhora maviri pakukurukurirana: ne vakuru uye vezera rako. The vaitungamirira basa, Chokwadi, wakapiwa vezera. Hama neshamwari, pamwe, uye vamwe vakuru, panzvimbo yechipiri. Ko shamwari uye kufunga kuti mwana pazera iri kupfuura chii vakuru vanoti. The kuyaruka ari kusangana chido chikuru kumisa uye "kuita mamiriro ezvinhu" iri seboka svertnikov. Haidereri kukosha panguva ino kwaari uye ushamwari inotungamirira kuti anotanga nezano kutsvaka uye kushandura neshamwari. Mukubata vakura kuyaruka kazhinji vasingariteereri, intransigence uye kusada kuzviisa pasi kuti, Chokwadi, kunetsa uye vasafare vabereki nevadzidzisi. nzvimbo inokosha munguva ino zaniyamyut mubereko uye okutorwa mwoyo nevakomana kana vasikana.

The vaitungamirira vavariro unhu muchizvarwa ichi chido chokuwana midzi chikwata vezera, akawana kutendeseka, kuremekedza uye pfungwa mamwe masoja.

Kupinda munguva youth, vechidiki zvinokosha zviviri yokukurukurirana - ushamwari uye rudo. Uye chikonzero kunze zera zvinhu. Zvisinei, basa rinokosha iyi, uye anowana yokuzvitonga, inova chokutanga. Nokuti zera ichi kunoratidzwa nepfungwa kuremekedza vamwe uye nekuenzana. zvinhu Vana vakawanda vari vakadzima uye ukama awana mumvuri okuyaruka, zvishoma nezvishoma ichifambira zvechokwadi kupinda vakura, apo vanhu kugadzirisa dzakawanda evanhu akasiyana mabasa kuti anoisa mucherechedzo wayo wegadziriro ukama.

Ukama pfungwa zera zvinhu uye interpersonal ukama riri vasingasiyani uye kuumbwa kuva cheni dzinokosha nguva upenyu hwevanhu.