Nzira yekupukunyuka vakaroorana vaviri?

Kurambana nguva dzose ibhizimisi risingafadzi, iro rinoda tape tsvuku yakawanda nemagwaro, zviitiko, misodzi uye kuora mwoyo kwechokwadi. Vanhu vakarambana nekuda kwezvikonzero zvakawanda, zvinogona kunge zviduku, kupopotedzana nguva dzose uye kukanganisa, kusawirirana mune zvepabonde, nezvimwe zviratidzo zvakawanda. Pasina mubvunzo, zvakakosha kutora kurambana chete mumamiriro ezvinhu akaipisisa, apo vasaroorana kana mudzidzi wepfungwa dzepabonde anogona kubatsira mukuchengetedza mhuri. Pamibvunzo - nzira yokupedza kurambana uye kana inogona kudziviswa, kune mhinduro dzakawanda, chaizvoizvo, vanhu vangani - zvakanyanya munyika yenyika. Kune vamwe vanhu, kurambana chinhu chakanaka chose, kupfuura nyore nyore uye nokukurumidza, asi sei kuponesa kurambana kune avo vanova kunetseka mupfungwa mupfungwa? Chokutanga pane zvose, zvakakosha zvakare kuti uedze "kutanga zvinhu zvose kubva pakutanga", uye zvisinei kuti chii chinokonzera kukanganisa ndicho chinyaradzo muupenyu, kupandukira, kutengesa kana tsika inowanzoitwa nemhuri. Zvakakosha kuti vakaroorana vanzwisise chikonzero ichi, vataure uye vauye pakupedzisira kuti zvose zvinogona kuchinjwa. Kana chikonzero chekurambana ndicho chinowanzoitwa "rudo", kana vakaroorana vachishamwaridzana, vakadzidza chimwe nechimwe chekufamba uye chimwe nechimwe chezvavakaroorana navo, unogona kungotangazve manzwiro ekare, kusiyanisa ukama hwavo. Asi pane imwezve mubvunzo - kuti ungapona sei kurambana, kana mhuri ine vana? Mushure mezvose, ndezvemwana ari kuparadzana naamai nababa vanova dambudziko rakawanda muupenyu. Munhu muduku haagoni kungovhiringidza mupfungwa yake, kurambana kwevabereki kunogona kukonzera kukanganisa kwakanyanya munguva yemberi. Kazhinji kazhinji mushure mekurambana, mwana anoramba ari naamai vake, nokuda kwepapa, shoko rokuti "baba kwevhiki" rinoshandiswa. Izvo zvakaoma zvikuru kuti mwana atange kushandiswa kune imwe nzvimbo itsva, kune nzvimbo itsva isina mubereki mumwe chete. Anotambudzika zvikuru mupfungwa, anogumbuka uye ane utsinye. Uye zvino mubvunzo unomuka - mwana angapona sei kurambana zvisingatambudzi? Mushure mezvose, muvana vaduku, kushungurudzika kwekurambana kunogona kusanganisa kwete chete hupenyu, asiwo pakugadzirisa uye kurara. Muchiitiko ichi, iwe unofanirwa kuita zviito zvakasiyana siyana:

- ramba uchicherechedza hurumende yezuva rechecheche wako, kufamba, kushambidza, kudya uye kurara pane dzimwe nguva;

- Kuti upindure mibvunzo yese nekuvimbika, mwana anogona kuzadzisa mubereki nemibvunzo pamusoro pokurambana, zvakakosha kupindura nounyoro uye nokungwarira kwaari. Nzira yekupona sei kurambana nechecheche? - unofanirwa kutaurira mwana kuti baba naamai vanomuda zvikuru, asi havagoni kugara pamwe chete. Iwe unofanirwa kuita kuti mwana wako ave nechokwadi kuti mubereki wose achabata naye uye kumuda zvakanyanya sezvaaita asati arambana;

- nguva dzose uchitamba nemwana uye usatadza kusangana nemumwe mubereki, kunyange kana kurambana kwaiva "pamapanga", hazvidikanwe kuti mwana apomera papa (amai) yokupandukira, kumuzvidza kana kumunyadzisa. Zvakakosha kusangana pamwe chete nguva nenguva, kuitira kuti mwana anzwisise zvaanoda;

- rega kupopotedzana nemwana wako kuitira kuti mwana asaone kana kuti anzwe kuti amai vake nababa vari kutuka. Anogona kuwana pfungwa yokuti kukakavara kunokonzerwa naye.

Nokucherechedza izvi zvinoda, zvinobvira kubatsira zvikuru mwana kuti atsungirire mamiriro ezvinhu aya. Nzira yekupukunyuka kurambana kubva kumudzimai kana murume? Kune nzira dzakawanda, asi kutanga kune zvakakosha kufungisisa maonero ewaimbova wekaroorana, teerera mazano emunhu wepfungwa, ave akatendeseka, anokudzwa uye ane njere.

Kuti urege kudzivisa, iwe unogona kushandisa rubatsiro rwakadaro sokurarama nguva imwe chete kubva kune mumwe nemumwe. Muchiitiko ichi, vakaroorana vanopiwa nguva yekufungisisa, kurongedza maonero avo uye kunzwisisa kana kana kwete kurambana. Munhu wekugara kwenguva pfupi chinhu chakanaka, nokuti panguva ipi zvayo iwe unogona kukonzera kurambana, uye iwe unogona nguva dzose kutanga hukama hutsva "hwekare".